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Old 08-08-16, 09:17 PM   #1
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Hey all, I know I have been gone for a while. Sorry, I don't usually come to this site if I'm not having a bout of depression, I hope you understand.

I just wanted to make a post that my boyfriend who I was in love with dumped me last Thursday because he didn't have time for me because of his school (he's getting his PhD) and also he didn't think we had enough in common. I tried to reason with him that we had plenty in common and that we could work things out, but it was no use. :(
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Old 08-14-16, 10:34 AM   #2
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Well, it sucks, but you have to respect his decision. If he wanted to move on, then there's nothing you can do, as you can't just force someone to stay with you.

Just try to keep looking forwards, you might find someone who you get along with way better and who possibly has more time for you. Take the time to get over this relationship though, don't try to jump into a relationship so shortly after being in one, but that's a given I guess.

Anyways, take it easy, hope you can recover quickly! There's a lot of people in the world, and odds are that tons are compatible with you.
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I have already begun my search for someone else. Thanks for responding and with your kind words and sympathy.
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Old 03-27-18, 12:26 AM   #5
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That sucks. Mine dumped me after five years. It has been a rough year since it happened. All I can offer to help you is that you will go through several stages of grief. It is like someone died. There is anger, depression, acceptance... all those stages and they reappear and ebb and flow. That is a really silly reason to dump someone. I am getting a PhD and having a support system is the thing I needed the most. I never felt it mattered about my my ex and me. But, you just got to hang in there.
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