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Old 02-20-13, 06:00 AM   #21
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I was in denial when people would tell me but now I have accepted that I am a bisexual. A friend knows and that's about it, she's not to keen with it because of my religion but I would never tell my family. I know it will be a big struggle for me for the rest of my life but so long I've accepted what's what that's fine. I don't know what's going to happen after this.
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Hi. First of all, she's already taken so telling her how you feel might complicate matters for both of you. You can love and admire her but only to a point. Also, there's this other issue about your sexual orientation. You do not know what her view is on bisexuality and if she entertains you on an extra-curricular level (i.e. an affair), she may or may not reject you if she finds out you also like men.
To accept one's sexual preference, in my opinion, is the only way to find peace and happiness after all, you can not change it no matter what you do. Just rest in the fact that whatever your sexuality is, you didn't choose it. It's just who you are. All the best.

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Old 02-21-13, 03:36 PM   #23
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What you've just said certainly makes a lot of sense if she's taken I'm not at fault me ending up loving her wasn't planned it just happened and I realized a while after not straight away. Like I've mentioned before I can love her and have feelings for her and never tell her, nothing will happen to her but, instead it will be mental torture for me. She knows I like men but she has no idea about me liking women I mean I've never told her I've liked women in the past we've had conversations before but never about this. Me telling her I love her may complicate things but at least I'll know what she thinks, don't you think?
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It will still be mental torture if she finds out you love her that way and she doesn't have the same feelings for you. Add to that, the fact that she is unattainable because she is married. It would be best to find somebody else who is unattached and can reciprocate your love. Best wishes.

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I won't find someone else as it is her I want or at least share my feelings with. If not now then I hope to make her aware of my feelings and love towards her a couple of months before I leave Uni. Thanks for you support
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