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Old 03-12-13, 10:58 PM   #1
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It's been more than half a year since my crush passed away due to a motorcycle accident and I still can't get over it. My mom expects me to move on, but it's easy for her to say, when she's not the one who was in love. *sighs*
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Old 03-12-13, 11:09 PM   #2
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I'm truly sorry for your loss. It will take time for you to heal from the loss of your crush. A half a year is not very long. You just need to let it run it's course. As for your mom we can't make other people always understand what we are going through. We can try to explain what we are going through but that's all.

I have the same experience with my parents and situations I am going through. I have stooped talking to them about it and just talk with my friends.
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I'm truly sorry for your loss. It will take time for you to heal from the loss of your crush. A half a year is not very long. You just need to let it run it's course. As for your mom we can't make other people always understand what we are going through. We can try to explain what we are going through but that's all.

I have the same experience with my parents and situations I am going through. I have stooped talking to them about it and just talk with my friends.
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thank you, Triptykon and Crystalsheds

but, why was it him who died and not some evil person who ACTUALLY deserved to die?

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Iamalone - I'm sorry for your loss dear.I believe that time heals all wounds. While some, take more time than others, it's allowing yourself to heal from it & be able to try & keep moving forward. Maybe your mom doesn't like seeing you like this & is trying to encourage you; her own way? I know it must be difficult what you're enduring/going through. You know, we are all here for you. I hope, in time, this becomes a bit easier for you.
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