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Old 05-10-09, 04:50 AM   #1
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As I sit here in my home reflecting on the sadness and pain that consumes my life with my mother who is 84 years old is dying.......It is Mother's Day and I have chosen not to see her....sounds bizarre as I have been with her constantly for the last 15 months......but I wanted this day for me and my two children......wanted to just hide away from the pain......for the very first time......

To the ttl members who are in pain on this day, or every day I sympathise with you.....It is sad to have lost or to be losing someone either rapidly or to a painful slow death........It hurts, it is confusing, I often ask 'why' and I get no answers......I always find the special days throughtout the year, are not a time for happiness, but makes the hurt greater and my pain greater..........

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Old 05-10-09, 04:53 AM   #2
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I can't believe that I hadn't seen this before...I'm sorry mama :(

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((((((HUGS)))))))

I know how you feel too... They had to increase my xanax dose to double what t was, I take two of the pills in my sig everyday. I feel like I'm just melting away waiting for the time to pass. I didn't get to tell my grandmother happy mother's day, she is on hospice and will go soon undoubtedly. Just remember, try your best thru every day.
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I know how you feel too... They had to increase my xanax dose to double what t was, I take two of the pills in my sig everyday. I feel like I'm just melting away waiting for the time to pass. I didn't get to tell my grandmother happy mother's day, she is on hospice and will go soon undoubtedly. Just remember, try your best thru every day.
Thanks Venom, it seems lately that things are too hard.....but I will work through it......always do....not much else to do really.....it has only been recently that I have had any support from my siblings with caring for mum...maybe I feel this way because I have the time now haha.......not sure....bit all over the show really........I am doing everything I can to keep mum at home with dad...so she can die in her own bed.......this disease is evil......the emotional rollercoaster I am on is fucking terrible....highs and lows in a matter of hours.......((((((hugs for your grandmother)))))))) Yes, I take Xanax too, too keep the dreaded panic away....sometimes I need more than the daily dose...to keep my head on straight and not backwards...(((hugs Venom))))
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mama you do sooo much....it's no wonder you feel overwhelmed!!
I know you already know this... but what you are doing for your folks is wonderful!! Not everyone has the capicity to do it! I consider you an angel right here on earth<3...I'm sure your mum and dad would agree!
Take Good Care of Yourself!!
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(((Hugs))) for you all.
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*hugs back to you mamabear*
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