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Old 12-11-09, 09:23 AM   #1
 
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I dont know if this is the place to put this, but I am still grieving over my dogs passing.... She passed away in March, 2007, I just miss her so much, I miss her growls, he cluimbing on me to get treats... I miss her so much... I saw her pass away and it wasnt nice at all, last time I saw her, she wasnt breathing vets took her into the room to resusitate her, and the vet came back without her.... them words ''I'm sorry''........ I told her in the car ''dont worry love, you'll be coming home with us'', but she didnt......... I live that day in my head alot, I miss her so much.

I have 4 other dogs, 2 of which didnt now Sniffles........ and the thought of Flossy and Carrie forgetting who Sniffles was hurts me so much.

I just want to hug her one more time, I just want to say ''I love you'', I want to give her, her last marrowbone bisket, I just miss her....

Sorry if this is in the wrong place.
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I don't think this post is out of place. I understand how much it hurts to lose a pet. I have lost many. I don't know that it gets any easier, and it sounds like you had an especially tough loss, not getting to say goodbye and all. It will be easier with time, but I know how haunting the memories can be of losing an animal. Try to distract yourself by focusing your energy on your other dogs. I'm not telling you to forget the dog you lost, but rather to honor her memory by being the best dog parent you can be to your other dogs, if that makes sense.

I know that one thing that has helped me is saying goodbye to pets after they pass. It may sound ridiculous to some, but it has helped somewhat. I've had funerals for my pets. I've written poems for them (and I'm not a poet).

I hope that it gets easier for you.
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