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Old 12-18-10, 08:24 PM   #1
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YouTube - Flyleaf - broken wings [Lyrics]

as i'm listening to this song, i find myself close to tears, remembering one of my best friends ever... he was the world to me. and though i annoyed him and scared him and angered him, never once was he mean, and never did he abandon me. the thing is, i met him online. we started texting each other when my parents told me i couldn't go on that site anymore. and then i screwed up just a tiny bit one day, and my parents blocked his number. he CHANGED his phone number to talk to me! and then my dad went and looked up area codes of people in my phone, and he got blocked again. i haven't heard from him since, even though i've written letters and shit. and i miss him so much, he was one of the most important people to me........ and now i'm in tears......... i wish i could still talk to him....
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is there a reason that your parents are going to extremes to block him? Maybe you should tell them how you are feeling?
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because we never met and he's 5 years older...... so dumb in my world...... i understand it, but age is but a number.........
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I'm sorry that your parents blocked you, though. That really does hurt, and it seems silly to block someone who is supportive from so far away just because of age.

You could try to call him from a friend's phone or pay phone, just to let him know what is going on. He might not realize its not you doing that to him. Also, he may not write actual letters, lots of people won't these days. It may not be that he doesn't like you now, just that he hasn't written you back. I had a pen pal for 4 or 5 years who meant the world to me and I understand how much a relationship like that can mean.

It is easy to find people in this modern era. Our information is pretty available via internet. I would offer that you shouldn't lose hope yet.
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Sorry to hear that happend to you hun. The above poster gave a great idea, ask one of your friends could you use their phone or go to a payphone. And as the above poster said he may just not be into writing, or who knows it prob "got lost in the post".

Hope you get back in touch with him soon.
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I'm sorry that your parents blocked you, though. That really does hurt, and it seems silly to block someone who is supportive from so far away just because of age.

You could try to call him from a friend's phone or pay phone, just to let him know what is going on. He might not realize its not you doing that to him. Also, he may not write actual letters, lots of people won't these days. It may not be that he doesn't like you now, just that he hasn't written you back. I had a pen pal for 4 or 5 years who meant the world to me and I understand how much a relationship like that can mean.

It is easy to find people in this modern era. Our information is pretty available via internet. I would offer that you shouldn't lose hope yet.
actually, i called him from my house phone, left a message... nothing. i don't think we're ever going to talk again.
yea he doesn't write letters =/ i already kinda knew that

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Sorry to hear that happend to you hun. The above poster gave a great idea, ask one of your friends could you use their phone or go to a payphone. And as the above poster said he may just not be into writing, or who knows it prob "got lost in the post".

Hope you get back in touch with him soon.
probably won't happen, but whatever... it is what it is
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