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Old 06-25-09, 02:39 PM   #1
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Just found out my girlfriend passed away on Tuesday. I only knew her through the internet and on the phone, but it was because of her that I was able to leave my then husband, she was always there for me no matter what. She just gave birth to a baby boy 2 1/2 weeks ago, she died from a ruptured aorta. She was only 37. She has 2 girls, young teens, who lost their father less than 2 years ago. And now their mother has passed.

I'm so sad, I'm so shocked. I don't know what to do.
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Old 06-25-09, 02:50 PM   #2
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Im so so sorry to hear about your lose Mousey..Connections through the internet are as real as any kind in this world, dont let anyone tell you different the feelings we feel when we laugh and cry together through a screen are here and they are just that: real..

Nothing I can say will make you feel better...but I hope you do.
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Oh my god... i;m so sorry...
To lose someone with such significance to your life, and her children... the 2 week old baby...
Saying sorry doesn't make a scrap of difference I know.
My regards to yourself, and her children.
Words are no help in a situation like this... Just, keep hold of the good memories, and how she helped you.

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Old 06-25-09, 03:18 PM   #4
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oh, wow, mousey.. . that's awful. ...
is the baby's father involved with her other children? what's going to happen to the kids? :(
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Old 06-25-09, 03:23 PM   #5
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Old 06-25-09, 04:18 PM   #6
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So sorry Mousey...(((((((((((((Comforting Hugs)))))))))))))))))))
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Old 06-25-09, 04:53 PM   #7
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Sorry For your Loss Mousey I No it must be so hard for you

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Old 06-25-09, 07:26 PM   #8
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Thanks everyone. I'm still not sure how I feel. Sad, of course. It's almost like a bad dream and I'm just waiting to wake up.

I'm struggling with this suicide attempt as it is, having to handle the sudden death of a close friend is just too much to handle right now. I just don't know what to do. I feel ...unresponsive I guess. Like a zombie.
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Hang in there mousey please do. I am so sorry for your loss and know you must be in shock. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve and know our hearts go out to you and that we are here for you.

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Old 06-26-09, 09:18 AM   #10
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I'm so sorry about your friend Mousey...(((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))
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