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Old 07-16-12, 09:54 PM   #1
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Default the most painful part of someone not liking u

Is when u realise that when u ignore them hoping they
contact u,
u see that they are glad ur not txing them and are happier without me

they DONT FUCKING LIKE ME

TJEU DONT WANT ME
I CANT IMPRESS THEM
THEY TRY TO AVOID ME
SAY HI TO.NE.POLITE BUT.COUNT SECONDS TIL IM GONE

well God, u always liked everyone else over me,
ill die so u and ur favorites can be happy
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Old 07-17-12, 05:28 AM   #2
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Is when u realise that when u ignore them hoping they
contact u,
u see that they are glad ur not txing them and are happier without me
they DONT FUCKING LIKE ME
TJEU DONT WANT ME
I CANT IMPRESS THEM
THEY TRY TO AVOID ME
SAY HI TO.NE.POLITE BUT.COUNT SECONDS TIL IM GONE
well God, u always liked everyone else over me,
ill die so u and ur favorites can be happy

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I don't know know if you are talking about God not liking you or a person, but whoever it is, I know it is not an easy feelingI'm sorry you are going through it
I will listen if you want to talk some more. You are important and special too
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Old 07-17-12, 10:12 AM   #3
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You are grieving the loss of a relationship that clearly meant a great deal. My suggestion is do not isolate yourself and do not judge yourself. This person is the one with the problem. They are are either to scared to confront the issue or are doing whatever they can to avoid feeling any pain. They have let fear dictate their relationship with you, and this is a pattern that will be repeated many times over for them.

We all come with problems and it's only through love and compassion that we can have the courage to tackle them.

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Old 07-17-12, 10:47 PM   #4
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Lotta girls don't like me cuz I'm not white
but even brown girls find reasons to not like me
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A lot of people don't like people because they just don't. Every race, every colour, and every combination of them gets plenty of dislike. I promise. I've been passed up for better hours or promotions or dates or romantic involvements because I'm too white. Or, because I'm not white enough. Go figure. We just have to keep on looking for the right one instead of focusing on how many times people treat us badly for not being what they desire. All it takes is one.

I'm sorry you are hurting. It's never easy to be singled out for something you can't help, like skin colour.
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