On 29th March 2010, I lost my best friend to medical misadventure. Her family have practically adopted me as one of their own, but other friends and my family think I should be 'over it' by now.
I feel as though my other friends have abandoned me - I have been asking for help for a month now (for other issues), but have had NO response from the so-called friends I have supported in the past.
Are they right? Is 4 months too long to miss a friend you never expected to lose? Am I dwelling on my grief because without her I have no-one left to turn to to talk about other things, or is it truly grief?
Anyone else been in this position?
By the way, I have never dealt with the loss of a loved one well (I still really miss my Grandma that passed in January of 2005)