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Old 08-13-09, 12:37 PM   #1
 
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Everyone close to me dies, ive had 2 miscarriages this year and find it hard to grieve...
i hardly ever cry and seem unable to let go.
has anyone else had the same problem or any ideas on how to change this? x
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Old 08-13-09, 08:59 PM   #2
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Tobiumism Welcome to TTL

The only thing i have in comman is grieving, as i lost my son to suicide last year.
I can only say each of us grieve differently and when the moments right youll find you will be cry for no reason, then realize your grieving. Thats what happened with me.
Sorry if ive not helped.
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Old 08-15-09, 07:32 PM   #3
 
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im sorry to hear about your son x how did u cope? x
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Old 08-18-09, 10:37 PM   #4
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Tobi do NOT give up on having a kid..... My mom had 6 miss cariages and one died at a month old ( premature) then i came along Lol so dont give up..


As for Hydii, my sincere sympathies. It must be such a big dent to loose ur kid like that....


As for grieving... i dont grieve.... until now i stil think my grandmother is at home and my aunt is visiting her grandkids in calirfornie.... but their both dead.... althought i did woke up in the middle of a night once and asked myself : where's my aunt...

It was so strange... I just asked myself where she was... like she wasent gone... but i dident know where she was.

Neways im psycho so Lol

But sometimes i watch the most horribly sad movies to make me cry

Then i feel better...

But still feels like their never really gone...

I hope you can find some peace in your heart <3

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Old 08-23-09, 10:46 AM   #5
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(((((((tobiumism)))))) (((((((hydiii)))))

i feel deeply sorry u`ve had to through such difficult situations in ur life. i personally havent grieved someone so close to my heart so far. im grateful for that, but reading ur posts gave some perspective of taking thinks for granted:(

i would not know what to say, other than u both are incredibly strong ppl !! may god bless u both!

and of course a big hugg on ur way!

(((((((((((((((((((((hhhhhhhhhhhhuuuuuuuuuuugggggg gsssss))))))))))
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Tobi and Hydi, my deepest sympathy goes out to you, my 8 yr old daughter passed away, it will be 2 yrs tomorrow, we expect the older people in our lives to pass away, not our children, I held back my greif so I could be strong for my wife and other children, and I have so much hostility and regrets today, I stuffed it so far down it is hard to even see my daughter, it somehow erased my memories, please for your own sanity don't hold it back and do not allow anyone to try and deny you of your feelings, if they tell you you shouldn't feel sad or hurt, politley walk away and under you breath tell them to go stuff it, working through the pain is the only way out.
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