Tobi and Hydi, my deepest sympathy goes out to you, my 8 yr old daughter passed away, it will be 2 yrs tomorrow, we expect the older people in our lives to pass away, not our children, I held back my greif so I could be strong for my wife and other children, and I have so much hostility and regrets today, I stuffed it so far down it is hard to even see my daughter, it somehow erased my memories, please for your own sanity don't hold it back and do not allow anyone to try and deny you of your feelings, if they tell you you shouldn't feel sad or hurt, politley walk away and under you breath tell them to go stuff it, working through the pain is the only way out.
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