i thought more family members would come to the funeral .....i am actually shocked that some of my aunts and uncles and cousins whom live in ontario didnt bother to come or were not able to..... my eyes hurt from crying ..... i wish i got to say goodbye to my aunt ...... life is very short ....no one is promised tomorrow .....so its important to cherish life.... i saw a couple of butterflies in the cemetary today....they are very symbolic to me because when my grandmother died a butterfly flew over her grave as well...