How long does it take ?
For all those who lose loved ones, it effects people in different ways. I've been told what seems a hundred times after losing my father last week it could be weeks, months or even years, to return to how things used to be. I do not have years.
What they tried to say, they don't know how long the suffering will last
. I don't even know myself, I don't even want to think about it, and it's only been a few days now. I offer sympathies to all those who have also lost family and friends in the above responses - indeed anywhere on these pages