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Old 11-23-10, 07:03 AM   #1
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I miss them... I only have my mom left of mom/dad-grandmother/grandfather ratio goes. I'm 24 years old. I wish I could be with them but lord knows what happens after I were to die. I have nightmares, horrible ones, they taunt me, like they are still alive and here for me, and I wake up, and find nobody.
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Old 11-23-10, 07:16 AM   #2
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That is so sad Venom . I have only my mom also. I lost others before I was 20 .
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I miss them... I only have my mom left of mom/dad-grandmother/grandfather ratio goes. I'm 24 years old. I wish I could be with them but lord knows what happens after I were to die. I have nightmares, horrible ones, they taunt me, like they are still alive and here for me, and I wake up, and find nobody.
I'm 53 years of age. I lost my father when I was 19 and my mother when I was 51.

I still feel the pain of losing my mother and from time to time, that of losing my father too.

I too had a few dreams that cruelly taunted me, but now I don't!

All I can say is, try not to spend too much time alone. Spend time with your friends whenever you can and if they too have lost close relatives talk your feelings through with them - they WILL understand (and if they are REAL friends they won't mind). And most importantly, spend time with your Mom as much as you can.

I wish you love, peace and happiness in your life.

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Old 11-23-10, 12:27 PM   #4
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I'm very sorry for your grief Venom...24 is young to feel so alone...My kids are going thru the loss of their dad right now, happened Nov 7th...so now they hav me and well they do hav one set of grandparents so they are lucky.

Ppl keep telling us it will get better, I sure hope so for you and for them!

((((((((((((((((((((Comforting Hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Sorry Venom....only you and mum. I understand how it feel when we miss our loved ones.....they'll always in our mind...and sometimes appear in dreams and then vanish.

Hope you feel better today. ((((hugssss)))
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Venom. I somewhat know how you feel. The only person I have left is my brother (my mom passed when I was 1 and my dad when I was 11). I too suffer from the nightmares where you think they are here with you but when you wake up, it's all a dream (and it hurts).

The best thing I found was to keep my brother very close to me, visit him lots and share memories of our parents and those who have gone before us. It's not the greatest advice, but it seemed to help me.

I hope you feel better and the nightmares become pleasant dreams and memories :)
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I know how you feel Venom, the last of my family, my sister, died almost 6 years ago so now it's just me.
Death is a part of life we can't escape, I just trust I will see them again sometime.
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