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Old 06-12-17, 11:38 AM   #1
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Whenever i go, whomever new i meet, in the end they allways hurt me, throw me away. I try to be cool and friendly, never give offence to anyone... It's not a question demanding an answer, just venting... I wonder if anybody here has the same issue.
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Wish i could have become a 100% loner, but i need people so much.
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I have the same issue. I'm usually treated as the disposable friend. Being overly nice, agreeable, and cool might actually be part of the problem. I think people find me boring because I avoid showing my real personality. For better or worse, I made more friends (and enemies) when I wasn't as inhibited.
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...I avoid showing my real personality...
Yeah, me too. I feel that my real personality is a joke.
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Yeah, me too. I feel that my real personality is a joke.
do you have social anxiety?
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Old 06-14-17, 12:18 AM   #6
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Yes. Many times happend to me that i was mostly silent for the whole time that i was hanging out with a few people. And i was still repeating how stupid i am and how stupid i have to look. The weird thing is that, when i was like 12-15 i talked a lot. I was also funny and popular at class. It was only at this period of my life, though.
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