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This is a discussion on trust issues within the Friendships forums, part of the Life's Other Challenges category; I'm going straight to the point. My best friend and i fought. why? because of trust issues. I tried saying ...

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Old 03-11-18, 07:52 AM   #1
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I'm going straight to the point. My best friend and i fought. why? because of trust issues.

I tried saying I'm really sorry and hug her because I don't really want to break our friendship but she keeps pushing me away and broke down into tears. My other friends took action and took her somewhere away for awhile. I was left sitting there thinking on how to make her know I'm really sorry.

It all started because I didn't want her to see the conversation of the guy having a crush on me because the guy said some personal things that he doesn't want anyone to know. She told me to give her the phone and if I don't, It means i didn't trust her. I gave her the phone after I logged out the app. After that she suddenly walked out.

I felt really bad but i really can't show her some stuffs because of my privacy. She knew me as the very open type who shares every thing. I think that's why she felt hurt when I didn't show her the conversation.

I know my problem sounds childish but i tried taking action. I tried saying sorry from the bottom of my heart, give her space, and even talked to her friends to never leave her if she was lonely.

I love her as my best friend that i'll even consider kneeling for forgiveness. I just don't know what to do now. I feel lonely and even depressed if we don't mend our friendship.
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Old 03-11-18, 11:19 AM   #2
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Sounds like it wasn't your fault. It's one thing to share everything about yourself. It's another to reveal stuff involving someone else. She doesn't sound like much of a friend.
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Old 03-20-18, 07:25 PM   #3
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You need to review your boundaries with your "friend".

As an individual you have a right to privacy and your true friends have to respect that. Especially that the subject doesn't concern her!! She is not a good friend. If you kneel and keep trying to ask for forgiveness, next time she will "walk on you". She is the one to ask to forgive her for intruding in none of her business.

I suggest you get new friends.
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