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Old 04-08-17, 11:36 PM   #1
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I'm so sick to death of one sided friendships. I had arranged to catch up with a friend on Saturday. They cancelled last week saying they had to study and didn't have time. Now this person has posted a bunch of photos on facebook, hanging with other friends yesterday. It's the story of my life. They always get a better offer and I'm just a plan B. It's no wonder I don't want to be around people at all. I'm just fed up with making all the effort and people just treating friendships with me as a chore. I stopped going to church years ago because of people and their stupid little exclusive cliques, they are worse than the fucking masons. I've had it. I'm not making any more effort to be friends with anyone anymore. I have my wife, we have no kids just our dog. Their loyalty is all I need, I don't care to be around stupid fake friends who let you down when a better offer comes along. Fuck them!
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Old 04-09-17, 02:02 PM   #2
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At least you are not totally alone. If it helps, I don't need friends at all, they just stab you in the back when it suits them. I don't have friends. I don't want friends.
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me too.

All of my friendships turn out like that. It's like, why even bother? Most people are a fucking waste tbh.
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It is he sab in the back I can't take. Pretending, ignorance, bullying, gossiping, whispering, arrogance, yes most of the people we have to deal with are a waste of space.
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Old 04-11-17, 01:19 PM   #5
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My friends, or the people who i thought to be my friends, don't even bother to say a fucking "hi". They kinda at first used me and then i was left to fend for myself. It took me while but eventually i isolated myself. I sometimes felt that no matter how hard i try i could never fit in the society. And i think i have actually accepted this fact. They never believed me when i tried to tell them that i was not feeling well. Neither my family nor my "so called" friends.
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Old 04-11-17, 03:10 PM   #6
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They are no friends then. You are better off without them. Threre are no friends in this world anymore. Once I realized this I had no problem not having any 'friends'.
Goodbye hapiness, hello loniless. It is OK really.
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Old 04-11-17, 03:55 PM   #7
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Friends aren't equated to happiness. And solitude is synonymous with loneliness. You can be happy alone.
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this post is so relevant right now. I've been working on a project with a group of students for the past few months. I did 90% of the work and ended up staying up until 4 am a few days ago redoing most of their parts because they're a bunch of lazy, incompetent fucks. The work I did for them was worth 35% of their final grade and I'm pretty sure I got perfect on all of it. Throughout the semester, they talked to me and appreciated my work but didn't really treat me as part of their little clique.

Today they all skipped class to grab lunch. I ran into them by chance and they said hi to me, so I decided to take a risk and join them. They essentially pretended they didn't know me after that. They didn't include me in their conversations or even make eye contact. They were dismissive of everything I said. It's like I was invisible. Then I found out that this past weekend, when I was busting my ass to get the project done, they all went out together to a club, had a good time, and got wasted. One of them had the audacity to say "oh, you should've been there. It was so lit." Good to know. Maybe I would've been there IF THEY ACTUALLY INVITED ME. I swear to God, I'm so fucking tired of this. It seems like all my life I've been reaching out to people who don't give a fuck about me.
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Old 04-12-17, 05:57 AM   #9
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Black sheep,

Man, that sucks. I would pretend they don't exist because from the sounds of it they are a pack of arseholes who only used you to do all their work. They deserve to fail. It's better to be around no one than users and fakes.
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I'm so sick to death of one sided friendships. I had arranged to catch up with a friend on Saturday. They cancelled last week saying they had to study and didn't have time. Now this person has posted a bunch of photos on facebook, hanging with other friends yesterday. It's the story of my life. They always get a better offer and I'm just a plan B. It's no wonder I don't want to be around people at all. I'm just fed up with making all the effort and people just treating friendships with me as a chore. I stopped going to church years ago because of people and their stupid little exclusive cliques, they are worse than the fucking masons. I've had it. I'm not making any more effort to be friends with anyone anymore. I have my wife, we have no kids just our dog. Their loyalty is all I need, I don't care to be around stupid fake friends who let you down when a better offer comes along. Fuck them!
I used to feel like this about friends. It got so bad I had to get off social media. Most of the time those groups cliques who are posting on social media are not even real friends. When I got off social media I realised who my real friends were because they picked up the phone and got in touch. 3 years on everyone who I have a real relationship with is on my whatsapp so we have direct contact not involving number of 'likes' 'hearts' 'retweets' etc. at least you have your wife who you can shower with all your time.
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