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Old 03-21-16, 04:11 PM   #1
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I'm a 16 yr old female and Ive known this guy for about 2 yrs and we've been reeeeeally close friends. (I also came clean about liking him romantically over the summer but that didn't effect our friendship at all really)But one day he just started ignoring me and he hasn't given a reason why. Being that he was the one I would vent to when I got depressed now I have to bottle up all of my problems inside. This has been going on for about a month now and he talked to me twice before spring break but now that we're back he's ignoring me again and I've done nothing wrong. I really miss him but he no longer wants me in his life I guess. When I asked him y he's been acting like this (before break) he said he doesnt know what in talking about but it's very clear to EVERYONE he's ignoring me and I'm seriously crushed about this. It's even worst that I think about him all of the time. I just need someone to talk to or at least some advice, please help.
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Old 03-25-16, 10:59 AM   #2
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People have all sorts going on in their head. It won't be because of you. It's because of something he has done or thinks or feels about something. Yes that probably does involve you. But if he's not ready to share with you what's going on then it is out of your control. I know you might feel helpless when things are out of your control but it's not the end of the world. I think I speak to 2 people I knew when I was around your age. I'm 21 now. We all grow apart from everyone at some point. If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here... Don't let it get you down.
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So sorry for you, but someone will appreciate you one day.
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Old 09-26-16, 06:43 AM   #4
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You're so young! You will meet LOTS of guys and find someone who loves you a million times more than you love him.
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I understand what you are going through, because at the age of 29 I am going through the same exact issue with my friend. It's hard especially when they were you rock and your number one. For me it's a lot harder because i am isolated all the time. It doesn't help that he talks to you for a moment and then disappears again. I know how hard it can be. You can either give it time and see what happens or simple try to do productive things to keep your mind busy. Eventually, you'll get tired of it and say I am better than this and move on, but I don't expect for that to happen anytime soon. Only you know when you're ready to let go.
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