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Old 02-20-17, 01:05 AM   #1
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It seems everywhere i go in a digital atmosphere i run into the same social issue. I meet new people and i try to please them. i want to impress them so bad that they will give me attention. if i dont get attention i drown in misery and boredom. its like i crave to constantly converse with someone. i feel like the first sign someone isnt welcoming to me i feel shut down like im an annoyance to the party. if i repeat something or make a mistake someone will always reply stubborn making me feel stupid. then theres ppl that take to long to reply back. am i expecting to much? id hate to be someone with social standards. i also feel depressed when im not invited to social activities and it happens behind my back yet when i offer something ill get a "possibility". i feel people just dont give a shit and arent interested. i have very little friends i talk to that i can expect a response from in a timely manner even though id want it instantly..but i just needed interaction 24/7 and i know that sounds crazy. i feel like i have a "chat addiction" from boredom. i have a hard time motivating myself to do something else than be glued to my laptop on social media. what can i do to stop this?
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There is a slight correction here .... you should not expect, just be present and just send out good vibes ... A smile. That's all what that time will ask.
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Are you working?
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Old 02-20-17, 08:57 PM   #4
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i always show up and act nice and feeling cautious of what i want to say sounds like alot of work. i wish ppl would treat me nicer or not make me feel stupid.

im not working right now but i made an employment plan with my caseworker. that will come soon.
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are you talking about online interactions or real life?
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Greetings and thank you all for the responses ironically that I didn’t respond to. I apologize and meant to make a new thread but figured I’d reply back to this since it still relates. It’s been a long time and I find myself still struggling with this issue. Top of my head I keep messaging ppl and those that give the not responding type vibe I always regret messaging. I’ve made a realization that maybe I’m more extrovert than introvert. Would this be true? Thanks for reading
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Yeah you sound like an extrovert. If you get a job, you'll have social interaction.
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