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Old 04-26-09, 09:15 PM   #1
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This is a stupid post and I' only writing it to be perfectly honest because on most occassions I'm well...stupid.

I've lost weight over the year, great right...yeah and I would love it even more if the place the 9 kilos came off wasn't my chest. I'm suddenly feeling really insecure about my feminine appeal to guys (not that i ever really blew them away with my looks). My brother, and I don't know why he's noticing is always going on how I have no boobs now and I would usually try to shrug it off but being in away recently chucked aside and rejected by a guy, I guess my confidence is at a all time low.
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Well firstly, congrats on the weight loss!

Your boobs may have lost some of the fatty tissue...but I'll bet they have a better form now. Do they?

Your brother's just trying to annoy you, ignore him. I'm sure your change in chest size isn't the first thing people notice when they see you. You probably notice it because, well, they're your boobs.
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Old 04-26-09, 10:24 PM   #3
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I know there's more important things in life than boobs. They were never that big in the first place, so I couldn't really afford to lose any...be small and proud I guess. I just don't feel really feminine and pretty, my friend said go out and buy new lovely bra's, all my old ones gap now but I just can't afford it. But one day hopefully soon I'll have some spare cash and buy some sexy feminine bra and underwear sets so I'll feel pretty no matter how much I have on top.

ps. thanks I'm proud of my weight loss:)
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Well I dont know where your boobs went, but I'll help you find em! lol
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I know there's more important things in life than boobs. They were never that big in the first place, so I couldn't really afford to lose any...be small and proud I guess. I just don't feel really feminine and pretty, my friend said go out and buy new lovely bra's, all my old ones gap now but I just can't afford it. But one day hopefully soon I'll have some spare cash and buy some sexy feminine bra and underwear sets so I'll feel pretty no matter how much I have on top.

ps. thanks I'm proud of my weight loss:)
Hi congrats on your weight loss!! Its quite an accomplishment. Did you find yourself upset about your breasts before the weight came off. Why i am asking this is because after I lost some weight, instead of liking how I looked I shifted my insecurities and started disliking something else..

Id suggest buying those «cutlets» once you have extra cash! They look amazingly natural!
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Thanks MaFille I am happy about my weight loss...its a struggle not to eat to be happy. My weakness is chocolate, coke, pasta, potatoes and bread. Oh how I love bread.

Before the weight loss even though I never had great big boobs, just average I was content. Now I'm just trying hard to get use to how little they are...how less womanly I feel up top. I was thinking of those stick on bra's things, the ones that look like chicken fillets...but I hate cheating. If I got small boobs well I want to be honest about it...you got to love yourself anyway right?
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Small breasts can be really sexy too, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Just love yourself whatever shape you are and others will do the same. :)
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I know your right picturebook small breasts can be sexy too, I just feel really unsure of myself lately. I never felt less sexy in my life, I wouldn't know how to attract a guy if my life depended on it. I guess that's the least of my worries. You have to feel beautiful for yourself anyway.

It's just my brother has told me over three time how small my boobs have gotten and how bad that is...he's also told me how old I'm starting to look and then he said, "No really you are starting to look old". Maybe its big brother teasing but with other problems and issue's on my head its just cutting deep at the moment. Even at high school I was never a girl that struted, at the pool I wore the long shirt and shorts not the bikini. If I knew about cellulite back then I would of showed of my ass alot more:)

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Maybe you need to let your bro know that his comments are causing you distress. Confidence is a difficult and ever-changing thing, you need good things to happen to you to raise your confidence but you need to raise your confidence to allow those good things into your life. Try not to worry about attracting guys and the right one will come. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all. Good luck and I hope you can raise your self-esteem to where it deserves to be! :)
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Agreed! I would be telling your bro to back off! That you are having body issues and you should be getting support from you family and if he isnt able to provide that than he should follow the old rule..«If you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all».

As for the feeling sexier, like you said, you will feel better once you buy new lacey bras. A new bra always makes a woman feel better.. As for the «cheating» as you call it, I dont see it that way. I wear a very control panty gridle type thing, I dont think its cheating, I think it makes me feel better about how my body appears. As long as you are not getting HUGE chicken cutlets, do whatever makes you feel good!! :)
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