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Old 11-12-09, 03:47 PM   #11
 
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Stop worrying! He will not think that. Think positive
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Old 11-12-09, 03:48 PM   #12
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I don't know... because my thought process is ridiculous?

Argh! I need to calm down. Luckily I'm not talking to him about this for a week. Otherwise, I'd be a crazy mess and not able to tell him anything. It'd be all emotional and nonsensical.
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You should write down what you want to say and tell him not to interupt until you are finished. Then just squeeze your eyes shut really tight until you hear what he has to say. LOL. Thats what i do.
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Old 11-12-09, 03:57 PM   #14
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You should write down what you want to say and tell him not to interupt until you are finished. Then just squeeze your eyes shut really tight until you hear what he has to say. LOL. Thats what i do.
thats a good one.....and it works too
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Lol, yeah that's what I do. The squeezing my eyes shut thing. I've always done that, because I refuse to look at people once I've spilled out my feelings. >< I'll write it down though. That should help.
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you can always say no, i slept with a lot of virgins looking back i wish i would have made it special for them, i was whacked out on drugs and they looked at me like a god, i didn't have the knowledge i do now, i guess i regret that, you always remember your first, if you love each other he will understand, maybe wait for that perfect time, but don't have a idea of what it should be, just go with what your heart says, follow your heart and you will never go wrong
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Was he already aware of what your virginity meant to you? If he's a good guy and he was, he'll understand. We're not all sex obsessed love hounds! A heads up though, make sure you make it clear this is a personal thing to you, not an issue you have with him. Don't be afraid to open up to him, it'll bring you closer in the long run. If he understands where you're coming from there shouldn't be any doubt, least of all about cheating. I don't see why he'd think that.
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Old 11-28-09, 03:39 PM   #18
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if you waited for the perfect moment with the right man, you would never lose your virginity. many people regret their first time. It sounds harsh, but you have to learn to live with it. You have to learn from it. It's an experience that happened to you, that made up part of the unique life you are living. No ones life is going to be up all the time, there are downs too. I know there's a big deal about losing your virginity, but there's also tremendous pressure to have sex. It can be hard to figure things out and know when is the right time. But instead of wanting to kill yourself, think of all the women who are raped, sold into sex slavery, and worse. What you experienced was nothing compared to that. I'm not trying to dismiss your feelings, just to put this into perspective and pull you back from the ledge.
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