i get so frustrated on here sometimes that i don't get a response as quickly as i feel i need one before i lose my mind, but then i see people with compassion who do read and do care and do post and it tightens my screws. thank you.

thanks dudley....he WILL get old one day and i hope he gets ED. interestingly enough, i have come to a conclusion that i was not responding to him physically because i really wanted to break up with him for his sake because of our age difference. since we have parted, i am "up and running." hahahaha but nevertheless alone. fucking twisted life. damn norns and their freaking skein of life.

Basically... Most men are idiots. They have a superficial view of what is important and they think it will make them younger to be with someone who is younger. It sucks. I hope you find someone very special who is the exception to the rule. And I hope he has a friend for me.

Loving the generalisation of men above. Completely backed up by factual evidence and not at all biased based on previous encounters. That damnable "men are idiots" rule gets me every time when I think I'm doing well.

But anyway,

I'm glad you are feeling a little better abalone. I hope your feelings continue to grow :)

Sorry, that first part was really uncalled for by me.

stop TT. men are idiots spoken by a woman, as general as it sounds, actually refers to aspecific man/men who have treated someone badly. i think if i ever say it in a general way to someone, it is usually a woman and it is said to make her feel better and so she'll not feel so crappy about how she was treated. i know there are some things men say about women too. "bitches" "blondes" "ditsy" "moody" etc. please don't take the comment personally. i'm sure you have your flaws, but from what i see here, you are a kind and considerate and thoughtful, caring person, and definitely no idiot. you have great insight.