For the past couple of weeks my girlfriend has been depressed and i don't know what do to help her, I've tried reading books about it to help her but i donít think she even wants help. The reason I think she is acting like this is because I leave in January, her job, and school. She just tells me sheís stressed out about everything in her life, but I know itís more than that, the constant tiredness, telling me she wishes she could sleep forever sheís also told me how everything is moving too fast and she just wishes she could slow everything down, and so on. She talked to me a week ago about wanting to take a break from each other telling me, that me leaving is going to be hard on her and that maybe we should go different ways and maybe one day we will meet again, she says she still loves me and cares about me but it doesn't feel like it when she says she wants to take a break but still talk to each other. I wish I could help her through this but I donít think thatís what she wants, having these last 2 months to rejoice with each other and she rarely wants to see me anymore, the communication is fading and its hard on our relationship because to me it doesn't seem like she cares. We've had our problems in the past but this is something completely different, I donít know if Iím making her miserable or dragging her down or just annoying her, I have no clue. What can i do to help her get through this? I try to be there for her but she doesn't let me, it feels like she's pushing me away.