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Old 09-28-16, 07:39 PM   #1
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My next appointment with my OBGYN is in late October. Problem is, I might have my period then. I know this because I am currently having one. I feel like a fucking goof-off because I kept forgetting and putting it off until it is too late. I could reschedule, except it will be in the first week of November, and I can't wait that long! I wish I was never on the pill, because all it did was make me moody and fuck up my cycle. I just want menopause to hurry the fuck up so I can be done with periods FOREVER!!

PS - I am (or was) going there for a routine checkup.
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Old 11-21-16, 05:46 AM   #2
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periods time makes us moody and irritated. I too feel very low during those days. Last periods on the day 1 I took a glass of banana milk shake and after an hour a small bar of dark chocolate and I felt lot better. You can try that too. I repeated the same on day 2 and 3. I am not much fond of chocolates so stopped it on day 3 but felt good else I usually end up crying during first 2-3 days.
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Since what I'm about to say is related to this topic, I want to share this real quick.

Checkup went well. She recommends that I get a copper IUD because I can't take hormones. I was excited at first, but now the appointment to get one inserted seems so close. It is this Tuesday, and I am already scared. I am scared of feeling pain afterwards, and I am more mortified of it piercing my uterus, my husband feeling it during sex, and the possibility of it falling out. I have never been so scared of going to an appointment in a long time. I want to cancel, but I don't want to get pregnant, either. I am given meds to help soften my cervix, but I am not sure if they will help. My first dose of it is tomorrow. I don't know what to do from here, I am so scared and confused!
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I really hate to bump this, but unfortunately, the IUD won't happen today. My OBGYN won't be there to perform the procedure, which is the reason for the cancellation. It was short notice and beyond my control.

On one hand, I now have plenty of time to prepare for the holidays as as well as my transition to the rec center. On the other hand, I feel unhappy and feel that I disappointed my family, especially my mother, who has been pushing for birth control.

My husband has been looking forward to having unprotected sex, and I feel like I disappointed him, too. He was thinking of getting a vasectomy or an alternative to it, but I want to use that as a last resort. We have been using only condoms for a while, but since they're not as effective, I am scared that one might break in spite of it not happening so far.

My appointment is now changed to next month; I honestly don't want to wait that long because A) I could get pregnant during that time frame, and B) I may not have my period then, and it is a requirement in order to have the procedure done.

I have taken pills to soften the cervix up, but now it looked like I took them for nothing...
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