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Old 07-16-08, 04:59 AM   #1
 
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I'm going to the doctor day after tomorrow... I'm 9 weeks pregnant. I told my mom today.. She wasn't proud of me at all, but she offered me her full support, and she said she's glad I've decided to keep my baby and to take responsibility for my actions...

This isn't going to be easy, I know.. I want to continue my education in a public school as long as i can. I might be able to continue it at home after i have to leave public school, but i doubt that..

I'm telling the father (my boyfriend) tomorrow.. Both the father and i have struggled with depression throughout our lives. He's always been there for me, and I know he would sacrifice his life for me.. I know he'll be there for me now.

This is going to be veeery difficult finance-wise for my family. I'm doing all the work i can to bring in some cash, but I'm only 13, and 13 year-olds aren't exactly notorious for bringing in the amount of money it takes to pay for the expenses of pregnancy.

My grandmother will most likely say my child is a mistake, just as she did with my mother... I'll be more than happy to inform her that this baby is most certainly NOT a mistake...my actions were. I'm only 13, and my boyfriend's only 14.. But we'll manage. I have a wonderful supportive family.

But... I may be getting my hopes too high.. There are so many things that could go wrong.. And I've been showing a couple of signs for miscarriage. I don't know what I'd do if i lost this baby...

Well, with high hopes that i find support within the TTL family and that i posted this in the right forum, i conclude this message. Thanks all...
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Old 07-18-08, 11:24 PM   #2
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Wow, Nightmare38, I'm really sorry this happened + your life's gotten so messed up. This has got to have been scary for you. I'm glad you have a supportive family and boyfriend.
Please, keep writing here. I didn't see this message in parenting, but I will look here for msgs now... I'd like for you to be able to talk some other place. I know this has got to be hard...
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Old 07-24-08, 11:28 AM   #3
 
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what happend with the boyfriend? you stopped updating...i hope all is well...and remember you can count on all of us for support...
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Old 07-27-08, 05:49 PM   #4
 
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I had a miscarriage a few days ago... I don't understand... Everything was fine, by what he doctor said..
That little life made sense of mine... I always went through life thinking that my existance on this world was pointless, and served no purpose... But then this kid... At the moment i found out i was pregnant, i was so happy... My life wasn't pointless any more. It served a purpose. This child needed me in order to live... I felt that i had done something good with my pitiful life for once...
I can't seem to think straight... I'll often just lose touch with reality for moments and find myself staring at the ceiling.. I don't understand anything anymore... Not even myself..

And my boyfriend... I went to see him yesterday... I told him about the miscarriage, and then i got scared... He looked like he was about to burst into tears and scream in anger at the same time... He grabbed my shoulders and shook me a bit a couple of times, but it was really nothing... It hurt me more than any physical pain could, though... The look in his eyes... It was so unlike him... That look was one that i would never expect to find on his face. He's usually so sweet and understanding and caring.. I understand that losing our child has hurt him too, but still.. We need to be there for each other now more than ever..

I wish i could understand this mess... I'm so scared...
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Old 07-27-08, 08:34 PM   #5
 
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im so sorry this has worked out the way it has for you...i wish i could throw your arms around you and hug you tightly...youve had such a hard time of it recently...i can aprechiate how you feel...when i lost my lover (to suicide) life seemed pointless...but you have to stand tall...be strong...i know that can, and usually is very hard...but you cannot allow your self to slip into depression further... we will support you in anyway we can...if you want a chat were here to talk to...were family on here
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