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Old 12-18-21, 07:26 PM   #1
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Hello.

I feel so alone and in constant fear. Since I spoke to my mother about the abuse I went through, she has supported me and done everything she can for my health, but I feel like she has given up.

She has been drinking, and injecting, although she stopped smoking, she had been clean for a long time, but she is no longer, this makes me very sad, she promised that she would be clean forever.

When she's like this, she stops listening to me and gets violent. She stopped taking me to the psychologist and psychiatrist, she says it is not necessary, that I need to forget the past. I feel very hurt, I don't know what I feel, her words hurt so much.

She is not bad, she is the best mom and everything she does is for my well-being, but, I can't help but feel afraid every time I'm with her, I don't know how she will react, she always gets angry, cries or does strange things for common things or anything that I do or she does.

She stopped going to work, and we have already received several calls from her boss. I don't want to start working but money is running out and she has no intention of working.

She hasn't hit me lately but I'm afraid she will do it again, she gets really mad at me. I love her very much, but I am very afraid. Without her support, I don't think I can overcome what happened.

I would appreciate some advice. What should I do? Thank you for reading.
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You might want to contact Adult Protective Services. You could also apply for a restraining order or an order of conduct (where she has to stop harassing you) through your local police department. Maybe call the police next time she assaults you.

Also, please get a job and move out ASAP. Nobody wants to work but we work to support ourselves and have money saved up for entertainment. Hope that helps.
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pizza===i reckon you have to deal with some serious insults and even assault===i reckon your mom changes under the influence of the drugs she takes===listen to the advice that sensualgirl gave you,getting a job or moving out is easier said then done,but if you can just consider doing it,and furthermore we listen to whatever you have to say...take care
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