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Old 03-29-08, 12:30 PM   #1
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so mousey is taking brayden to see the sperm doner today and his grandmother, i really don't want them in the picture at all, i've been there from the begining but they just now showed up when we went for child support, the sprem doner ran away when he heard mousey was prgant, he moved down to ten and now he just came back a week ago, this is a man who raped her beat her and pushed her other son around, and he is on drugs, does the baby really need some on like this in his life, mousey said she is taking him to she his grandmother that she is nice, this is the same woman that called child services on us and tryed to have brayden taken away, not to nice if you ask me, mousey is all happy about going there today, i feel like she is taken brayden away from me and i am very jealous, and i'm not a jealous person in fact i hate being jealous of any thing so what do you think do i have a right to be upset or am i over reacting and how can i deal with this any ideas?
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oh crims, ((((((((HUGGLES)))))))) i'm really sorry. idk what to say. it's all so confusing and complicated it sounds like. idk what to tell you. of course i would be extremely jealous and pissed. but it's mousey's decision in the end and i know she loves you and doesn't want to hurt you either. have you talked to her and told her how you feel? is there any danger of the grandmother or the biolgical asshole taking action? as long as brayden is safe with you and mousey, i don't know. but i would be careful. jut remember mousey loves you crims.
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NO ONE IS GONNA TAKE HIM AWAY FROM YOU.

brayden loves his daddy. your the best daddy ever.



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sc is, of course, right crims. you have absolutely nothing to worry about as far as that is concerned. you are, after all, the most huggable, cuddly, man-god i know which is a pre-requisit to fatherhood, i believe...
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i can understand wanting/needing child support, but isn't it also an option to have the guy sign away his rights as a dad? (i don't know what that entails or if he'd even agree to it). if he's paying support, he's somehow, some way going to be connected to brayden. you may want to consider looking in to all the legal options u have. .. plus if mousey isn't getting child support for brayden, she may be able to get some other financial help. i don't know.
as for the grandmother, well, she's the grandmother. i think she's going to be protective of brayden, too. i heard about someone, i guess it was her?, calling child services because there was tape on the windows outside, i don't know if that in itself would be like saying she tried to take brayden away from u (or did she do something else?).
i can understand being upset & jealous, but you are a good guy, crims. i think brayden is going to grow up knowing who loves him and cares about him, and you have no competition from this guy there.
i suggest - find some legal help. now, before brayden gets old enough for this guy to want to spend time alone with him. i know you guys probably don't have a lot of $, but research your options. a crisis pregnancy center may be able to point mousey to programs or options she can take advantage of, 'cuz legally she's an unwed mom w/ a newborn. and document things, if u see this guy drunk or high or whatever. i don't know if that is enough to support you if you want to keep the kid from having to be with him if he wants it, which is why i say find legal counsel now, at least do internet research to find out the laws in your state regarding your rights, his rights, etc, etc. you need to look down the road.
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thanks every one i don't know why mousey wants his family in our lives, but i am awfully cuddly and i am awfully cute :D
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mousey just called she said the vist went great, she was telling me how josh is off drugs now and how cleaned up he is, that doesn't change the guy he is, she is going to take the baby down there every sunday, she didn't even ask me, i'm braydens daddy but i have no say in what he does, she even made a ascuse for why josh's mom called social services on us,
i feel used, i was there from the beging i was there when he was born
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I feel like I'm not allowed to post in here, but I will anyway. I'm sorry you feel so hurt hun. I was only doing what's best for Brayden. A baby can never have too many people to love him. He's going to have 2 daddy's, do you know how lucky he is? Too many children don't even have 1 daddy. Nobody will ever take Brayden away from you. In fact, Josh will be considered the 2nd daddy, and you'll be his #1 daddy. It doesn't matter to him who created him. What matters is who is there for him.

Plus, we now have answers to questions we've had. Medical background info for one. And we know why they called social services & why they hired a lawyer. It was all based on what my ex-husband told them....which is why we all agreed that direct communication is best.

I understand it's difficult for you right now, I really do. But I promise that when you meet them next week, you'll feel better about everything. I love you so very much, I really do. We're going to be such a happy family, you'll see. :)
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