Well. I know you said you don't want advice from a skinny person so I'll talk about my friend if that's OK.
My friend was really fat o_o she has always been fat since we were growing up.
She was pretty though (even though the fat... kind of makes some people view her as not)
Then her boyfriend dumped her... and what does he say? "You are too fat for me" or something like that. What a jerk. She was fat in the beginning, if he didn't like her anymore- he should have just said so -_-
She was really mad about it and sad too (for awhile) o_o and really determined to lose weight.
So she started eating healthier (like cutting on junk/unhealthy foods but not all of it lol. who would?
And she started exercising (jogging everyday and sometimes playing sports too, i think she played ddr too (but DDR is reallyreallyreally a slow process to lose weight so don't bother unless you find it fun))
It took a long time though... Uh. It was gradual to me since I saw her more often than not but I think it took some months though.
Well. His comment was the reason she really wanted to lose weight x_x He really humiliated her. It's not the best reason but it made her strive for a goal. Well, she's skinny and pretty now (and I think she forgot all about that guy or doesn't care anymore lol)~ but you probably don't wanna hear about that. o:
It takes a long time just so you know. It won't happen overnight.
I read your post and from what I see is... you want the results but you don't want to work for it. That's the problem there. You say you want to do it- but in reality, you actually don't so then you won't. lol.
Ok. If you read my post, please ignore your 'current' wants and remember your 'long-time goal' want... and go jog right now
. ok? lol... but no one can force you to do what you really don't want to. You can try to force yourself to do things you don't want to but not everyone has the self-discipline (willpower/control of oneself) to.
Good luck :]