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Old 08-04-06, 10:30 PM   #1
 
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HI,I AM VERY DISTRESSED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I'M 5`,98LBS AND I THINK I AM SO FAT AND UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IHATE MYSELF AND I DON'T KNOW WHY. I STRIP FOR A LIVING AND I THINK IT REALLY MESSED ME UP,I'VE SEEN SOME F-ED UP STUFF IN MY TRAVELS. I FEEL WORTHLESS AND I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THIS WAY ANYMORE.I THOUGHT THAT IF I GOT SKINNY I'D BE HAPPY BUT I STILL AM FAT!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 08-04-06, 11:33 PM   #2
 
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Ok sweetie, if you're 98 pounds, trust me YOU ARE NOT FAT. You have to stop looking at yourself that way. Every morning when you get up, force yourself to look in the mirror...tell yourself that you are beautiful. If anything, I would think you need to gain some weight. Have you seen a therapist about this? I was once annorexic and nearly died...I don't want to see the same thing happen to others. Feel free to PM me anytime.
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I hope this dosen't sound ugly, but if you strip for a living, it's likely your not fat at all, since most clubs would not hire you if you were--a harsh reality, I believe. Logically 5ft/98lbs just isn't fat, period. There's alot of people on this site with similar issues so I'm sure you'll find some good advice--better than I can give on this subject.

One thing I have learned is that women are very critical of themselves--more than others are of them. And you know peole never see themselves as they really are because we filter what we see through out mind and if we have a dysphoria/emotional distress about our appearance, we don't see clearly.
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Old 08-15-06, 03:40 PM   #4
 
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Hey if u were barely 5ft tall and 147 pounds then u would be fat(thats me). But ur 98 pounds u r way 2 skinny.
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Bleach23478,

hey!!! ur not fat!!! i am bigger then you and i am not fat! i am 5 foot 2 and weigh 161!!!!
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Dear, first off I know people(years ago, dino here)that use to strip for a living, sorry, but they don't take fat people. I would like to really/truly understand WHY you think your fat? Do you workout? Sometimes doing something like that will make you feel better about yourself & the way you see yourself in the mirror. There's a reason why you fixated on thinking that way...did somebody say you were? I'm sorry, but I tend to agree with the other here, 5' & 98 pounds, is skinny dear.

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hey,
look, ive read what everyone has said here and im going to tell you, the main idea that there saying is your not fat and they are right, your not. but us telling you that probably wont help you. it might make you feel a little better, till the trigger of the thoughts come back to haunt you. so, figure out what the trigger is. when do u feel these thoughts coming on? when did they start? who helps you and what doesnt? avoid what makes you feel fat (dont avoid food though) and stick with what doesnt make you feel fat. if your comparing yourself against others, then dont. everyones different, for example muscle weighs more than fat.
please, stop these thoughts now before they get worse and you go to far downhill. you might think your far down now but trust me darling, your not. i know, i go through it daily... and do look in the mirror and point out what you like about yourself and highlight those features (eg eyelashes and hips)
eat healithy and exercise in moderation and i am sure you will find that this helps your mind and body.
good luck on this journey, im here to help if you need me
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alright so how old are you? because im 5'2" and i weigh 96lbs and im 16. im not going to be mean but you thinking your fat really sickens me.. you have to be older than 16 to be a stripper and if you weigh 2 more lbs than me then your really implying that "i" must be fat. and im not at all. so your not either. so get it out of your head.
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i am 5'7'' or 5'8'' and i weigh 160 pounds. i am currently trying to lose some weight. but u r not fat. i am.
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stop it. stop putting yourself down. thats only going to make it worse.
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