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Old 08-26-11, 02:17 PM   #11
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i am truely sorry you had such a horible life you truely are amazing to be able to get up everyday and not deal with that u went through you seem like you are such a strong person and i wish that people would treat you better. you do not dissverve to get treated the way you do u seem like such an amazing person to deal with what u deal with and to still get up everyday stay strong
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hm well hopefully her mean streak would protect her in some ways, although the way things are going prove otherwise i guess.
as for that girl , wow, i can't believe she would be that selfish.
I'm really sorry about everything.. this all seem so difficult.
how are you dealing with the people around you now? I say drop them, they seem so selfish and they just induce stress : /
I believe, you're correct to some degree on the mean streak. My other thinking is BP.(?) Yes, the other girl IS that, and has always been that selfish. I've never seen it to the degree it is now!

I don't "deal" with people. I suck it up, keep it to myself, or, in this case, have some place to release it. It sucks, truly. I dislike myself, because I can't 'blow' at people or treat them as cruely, as they treat me. It's hard to "drop the stress," when they live all around you!
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i am truely sorry you had such a horible life you truely are amazing to be able to get up everyday and not deal with that u went through you seem like you are such a strong person and i wish that people would treat you better. you do not dissverve to get treated the way you do u seem like such an amazing person to deal with what u deal with and to still get up everyday stay strong
Thank you, honestly. I have had a miserable life, but hey, I know there's people that have it worse. It's what I tell myself, when I think my life's going poorly. I'm not that strong, not any more. People and life have taken alot of that strength away from me. Yes, I think I allowed them or enabled them to take that way, so that's my own fault. Some days are easy, some days are truly not. I think, each day's a gift, so live it to its fullest!
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Thank you, honestly. I have had a miserable life, but hey, I know there's people that have it worse. It's what I tell myself, when I think my life's going poorly. I'm not that strong, not any more. People and life have taken alot of that strength away from me. Yes, I think I allowed them or enabled them to take that way, so that's my own fault. Some days are easy, some days are truly not. I think, each day's a gift, so live it to its fullest!
the thing is you seem much stronger then well i am i mean it seems like u still deal with so much and yet you seem to be lasting everday i know i feel the same way some days are eaiser then others and some days i find it almost imposible to get out of bed it actully happened this week sadly :( but yeah i mean i know how u feel and i feel like what little strength i had growing up is long gone sadly :(
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the thing is you seem much stronger then well i am i mean it seems like u still deal with so much and yet you seem to be lasting everday i know i feel the same way some days are eaiser then others and some days i find it almost imposible to get out of bed it actully happened this week sadly :( but yeah i mean i know how u feel and i feel like what little strength i had growing up is long gone sadly :(
I have to put on a "front" for the sake of my daughter. Right now, I'm just besides myself. I have way too many things on my plate to deal with, and I'm honestly, overwhelmed by it all! Since, she's at work now, I can allow myself to "let it all out" in private. I'm lasting, but it's taking more tolls on me, more than I can handle some days. I try to teach my daughter, to be strong in the "face of diversity." I don't want her, to ever think, no matter what happens in life, don't give up and keep pushing/moving forward. That's what I honestly try to do, each and every day. No matter how lousy I feel, how much I hurt, or how tired I really am.

Never give up, on finding your own strengths! It's never truly gone, just "dormate," in my opinion. We can all be strong, it's just our need to be strong that gives us more energy to keep going! When you feel, like sleeping all day, staying in bed, or just doing nothing, find something to get you motivated!
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I have to put on a "front" for the sake of my daughter. Right now, I'm just besides myself. I have way too many things on my plate to deal with, and I'm honestly, overwhelmed by it all! Since, she's at work now, I can allow myself to "let it all out" in private. I'm lasting, but it's taking more tolls on me, more than I can handle some days. I try to teach my daughter, to be strong in the "face of diversity." I don't want her, to ever think, no matter what happens in life, don't give up and keep pushing/moving forward. That's what I honestly try to do, each and every day. No matter how lousy I feel, how much I hurt, or how tired I really am.

Never give up, on finding your own strengths! It's never truly gone, just "dormate," in my opinion. We can all be strong, it's just our need to be strong that gives us more energy to keep going! When you feel, like sleeping all day, staying in bed, or just doing nothing, find something to get you motivated!

yeah well you actully do it which is more then i can say for some people i have met you seem like no mater how matter how hard life gets for you your not going to give up and thats honestly really admorable and makes you strong for just hanging in there at least in my books right now i find it so hard to put up a "front" i do not see the point in pretending i am happy when i am really not :/ i have alot of respect for you for hanging in there after all you go though and went through.
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yeah well you actully do it which is more then i can say for some people i have met you seem like no mater how matter how hard life gets for you your not going to give up and thats honestly really admorable and makes you strong for just hanging in there at least in my books right now i find it so hard to put up a "front" i do not see the point in pretending i am happy when i am really not :/ i have alot of respect for you for hanging in there after all you go though and went through.
Well, it "works" for me. It It may not work for you, but you'll find something that works. I look at it this way. Life is hard, very hard. Putting up with people IS part of life, whether we like it or not. There's got to be something, you do, that will work for you. I have to put on a front, because it's my way of protecting myself. Some people avoid others, some people, judge others, some withdrawl, and the list goes on. Each person, finds what their own "comfort zone" when it comes to people. I think, I do it, not only for protection, because of my lack of trust with people. I don't mind, if they think I'm nice, I just don't want to get close to anybody. I find it easier, for me, to live with a "fake" front, rather than allow people in and hurt me. I just got done, letting down my guard with a person, and again, I'm the one paying for it. The next person I met, I'll do the same, as mentioned above, because who knows, they could be the best friend I'll ever find or meet.
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Well, my daughter, gets a nasty text, from the girl I mentioned previously in my posting. This girl's really getting on my last nerve! I wont say, what she said to her, but basicly, she told her to "keep her name out of her mouth!" What the hell does that even mean?! To me, it's like she needs the stick pulled out of her, well, you can figure that part out, and she needs a reality check! So now, my daughter's really upset, mad, and just doesn't get why she's doing this. I personally, am happpy that this girl's out of my kids life and she can stay gone, for all I care. She's such a self-absorbed, immature, self serving person, that my daughter doesn't need in her life. I told my daughter, she does desirve better! She needs to not bother wasting another thought on her, her life, where she's heading, etc.... I told her, there's always a 'spoiled little apple' in the bunch, and she's one. I don't like the way this girl walks around like her stuff doesn't stink.

The last time I checked, we all go the same way, and she's not any better than anybody else. I told her, the time for her "honoring herself," will be shortly lived. I told her, all her money WILL run out, because she spending it, way too fast. I also told her, somebody may end up, taking advantage of her, the way she's done to others. It's sad, but it usally happens. It's hard to let your own child know, that you've seen this happen in your own life and that things will improve, for my daughter. It's like finding the "right one." You want the right one, for life, not the right one for just now. I hope, that made some kind of sense to her. I got that blank stare, which doesn't tell me if it "registered up stairs or not?"
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Lol good post.. i'm glad that girl's out of the way
you sound capable of telling someone to fuck off though lol, & you have plenty of good reasons. i'm sorry these people seem to be omnipresent though
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Lol good post.. i'm glad that girl's out of the way
you sound capable of telling someone to fuck off though lol, & you have plenty of good reasons. i'm sorry these people seem to be omnipresent though
Well, I don't tell do that. Like that suggestion though! For her being omnipresent. Yes, I agree! She's continuously and simultaneously presents herself, when she really needs to go bye bye! I hope she stays bye-bye too!
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