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Old 06-28-13, 02:48 PM   #1
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My biological father has never lived with me and is barely seeking contact with me.
I went to a mental hospital against my will, my mother lied.
I went into prison against my will, for eventually no reason.
I felt scared for my life multiple times.
I donít have any friends.
Family is barely seeking contact with me.
My mother doesnít know whatís right for me.
My mother doesnít has a job.
My mother likes to see me unhappy and vise versa.
My mother doesnít has a man.
My mother is a liar.
My mother is a negative person.
My mother has psychological problems.
My mother is self-centered & selfish and doesnít want whatís best for me.
My mother left me all alone for quiet some times and says she is worried about me while doing nothing about it.
My mother accepted that I was laying in my bed and watching tv while doing nothing about it for quiet some years.
My mother is jealous of me.
My mother sees things totally different than that they really are and tries to bring me down with her made up facts and control me.
For a year I like a girl who likes me back, but without ever approaching her.
I went through days without having any social contact.
Almost 6 years I didnít spend any time with friends, but at school and laid at home watching TV in my bed.
Till my 19th birthday I never did or had anything with a girl.
There were days where I had thoughts of suicide, although thatís the least I want, but because I felt really bad and alone.
My parents barely taught me any life lessons.
My parents rather spend time on their own things than on me.
My mother is unhappy.
There were moments where I was almost too scared to do anything.
I felt scared to approach the girl of my dreams, although she is more nervous than I.
I had a moment of being physical paralyzed by fear.
I locked myself and cried in my room, because I was so lonely and afraid of everything.
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Old 06-30-13, 06:10 PM   #2
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Hi there. :) I hope you're in good spirits. How are you feeling today?
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Old 07-03-13, 06:11 PM   #3
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Hiya,

Hope you're doing ok and that things with your Mother are better.

I'm sure there are people who are on this forum are willing to be your friend. I for one would be.
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Old 07-04-13, 12:40 AM   #4
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To me it sounds like you have a lot of potential. I am 32 now and have only ever been with messed up women that were more in love with me than I was with them because I am completely afraid of people who have their shit together.

The main advice I have to offer you is to get away from your mother if you can,she sounds like a toxic person who is only goingto brjng you down. I have a lot of experience with this.

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Mental Man is right. Try to ease the toxicity out of your life. You deserve so much. I hope you're feeling better today...


Try doing things that make you happy. And use every opportunity you can to be away from her for now to try to make that spacing permanent. It doesn't have to be a big move or decision. Just baby steps and YOU WILL GET THERE.

This situation is not permanent for you. Believe it or not, it does get better. You won't always have these moments to be concerned about. Just make sure to do something that makes you happy and feel like a better person everyday. You have that power. And only you. Harness it, young dragon. We believe in you.
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Old 07-04-13, 08:03 PM   #6
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I've had to learn that parents aren't superheroes. They just do what they can, and sometimes it's not really good enough. At some point, even though its so hard, I had to just move out and learn who I am. Best decision for me. And my relationship with my mother improved as a result. I hope your today is better than your yesterday.
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