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Old 01-12-07, 05:03 PM   #1
 
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i am new here and i need real help. i have been in mental hospitals 3 times now and they really are stupid. all i heard well i was there was it is all my fault!
i cant take it anymore i am ready to give up and end all my pain forever. i dont know where to turn.
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what was your fault?

oh, and welcome hurting2beloved. glad you are here.
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hey hurting,

there will be more people on later, too. most don't get here until later in the evening. you will have tons of people to talk to about this - many who have been in the same situation as you.

in the meantime, try to stay calm and focused. don't give up on you.

if you want, share a little bit more about your life, the hospitals, etc. sometimes just talking helps.
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it's not your fault you did do anything wrong, whats going on what is happen
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well right now the main thing that is getting at me is my mom i am only 17 and really i cant do anything according to my mother. but i mean she is trying to controll everything and she was being really supportive with my depression and eating disorder but she has change and is really saying that if i wanted to be i could be happy at anytime and that i chose to be depressed so i just dont know. and to make things worst we got in a huge fight this morning and i have not talked to her since.
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i hear you...my mom and i haven't been getting along either due to my depression either...
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but she has change and is really saying that if i wanted to be i could be happy at anytime and that i chose to be depressed so i just dont know. and to make things worst we got in a huge fight this morning and i have not talked to her since.
this is typical of parents, hurting. they get to the point where they don't know what to do and they often say "it's your fault because you can change it." females who are anorexic hear the same types of things. parents just don't get it for a long time. stick to your guns and keep trying to educate her. tell her that you would love to be "well" and not have depression and that you wouldn't wish this on anyone, especially yourself.

when i was 17 and had fights with my mother, i felt like the world was coming to an end. i was frustrated and angry, hurt and hostile. it changes a bit over the years, but she can still upset me more than anyone, especially when she's being critical.

let some time pass and both of you will cool down. maybe she'll come to her senses again. or have your doctor talk to her and explain that IT IS NOT your fault.

you sound like a reasonable and smart young lady.
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Sometimes people that are not going through depression can get to the point where they feel as though they don't know what else to say. Maybe she is just having a hard time. It is no excuse to treat you badly, but maybe it will give you a little bit of perspective. It sounds like you are making huge strides fighting some pretty tough issues. That is a win. You sometimes have to be as strong as you can be...and we are here to help.
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you can't make your mom happy if she is not that is some thing with her i think she feels frustrated that she can help you out of your depression, just try not to late her get you down and take you time with her she will come around
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