Sometimes I see this lady, a psychic. She says things that often come true.

Last couple times I thought that info she gives me is not really useful, because my actions fall right into the course of the events how she predicted it, so even if it’s bad I can’t alter it or may be she is not giving it to me the way that I could alter it, may be she can’t.

For example. In September she told me a girl from another city would be driving to my house to stay with me. She said: the blond is ok, don’t take the dark one.

Fast forward December: a girl that works with us seasonally asked if she could stay with me for a while. She is blond and drove from a nearby city.
I took her, cause never had issues with her at work and psychic said blond was ok.

It turned out bad. The girl was not good, extremely toxic. Then her boyfriend came: he is darker skin btw. Whole situation was very negative, I eventually asked her to leave.

So now: did the psychic make a mistake by saying blond was ok? Or was she given that info that way just so I go through and take the girl living with me because it was a part of my destiny?
If she told me correct info, that girl was bad, I wouldn’t take her, thus the whole prediction wouldn’t come through and alter the coming events.
It brings me to a conclusion that the future is ore written for relatively major events. I can’t be given exact info on those so I can’t alter or even with the info they still find a way to happen.

I was in the middle of a project. The psychic lady asked how 2018 turned out for that project (she doesn’t even know what project). I told her it was a disaster. She told me to watch it, cause 2020 is showing same outcome at least in the first half of the year. I heard her. And still proceeded without consideration. Guess what, it went bad: 3 months of hard work went into flames.

Last year I was going on a long trip. I asked her if the trip was good, she said she saw me going, that’s it. I went and that trip brought many problems on me. If I didn’t go, the entire course of my life would have been very different from then. But was she not supposed to tell me that trip was bad? Or she didn’t see it? Because it was major event that was pre written in my destiny?

Now I am thinking, if the destiny is pre written, I might just as well lay down and die. I might be set up to suffer for the rest of my life, and nothing I can do to alter it...

It’s a weird feeling, hard to describe: you work, you read, you learn, you try, you jump, you cry, you meet new people, try new things...no matter what you do you can’t jump over your head: it’s pre written: if you are to suffer - you’ll suffer anyways, if you are to be poor or lonely: no matter what you do, it’s set by default and you can’t alter it.

It helps a little with self blaming and shaming: when I make a mistake or bad judgement call, I tend to be hard on myself. Now I am thinking: hey....it was supposed to go down this way, it’s not your responsibility in a sense, it was pre written and you are just following a script.

I'm not sure if any of us is qualified to answer such a huge and age-old metaphysical question. How would we know? Nobody has all the answers.

Does it help you to distract yourself? I firmly believe that our own minds are a much bigger threat than any enemy.

it is indeed a very difficult question to answer?i think in India they talk about our karma etc...we can look at it in a philosophical,psychological,ethical or moral way,but still it remains to be seen whether our destiny is pre-destined or not...it depends on lots of facts==bottom line is,there is a thing such as destiny,but it isn't something to blindly accept,our deeds will always be above it..if we have the power to shape our destiny and our life then it will always reflect on the choices we made or have made?or will make in our life==my 2 cents only

I always appreciate your 2 cents, just the fact that you care enough...

How’s everything with you? Did you recover after the fire? (Emotionally etc).

As for destiny. I’ve set my mind this way: there is a destiny for major events, that can’t be significantly altered. It is connected with astral energy, that’s why you and your own actions alone can’t change the course, until you are given a window of opportunity, when it’s time.

In that window you are given options.
Which again most likely you are pre set to choose a definite one, since your mind and consciousness have been set up in a certain way because of the energy the day you were born. Or may be cause of all the surrounding circumstances at a time.

The day when you make an uncharacteristic choice you would be able to change the course of your destiny (worse or better), but I believe not many are able to do that (including myself).

Intuition is the key. All the info is out there, but one needs to be attuned to be able to read it. There are 2 important components to a good intuition: enough sleep and when you let go of a situation.
Einstein said: “I think 99 times and find nothing. I stop thinking, swim in silence and the truth comes to me.”

@Insearch...you wrote====I always appreciate your 2 cents, just the fact that you care enough...How’s everything with you? Did you recover after the fire? (Emotionally etc)

thanks for writing that...i also value your postings in TTL because they point out your intelligence and insight..regarding the fire+++i was upset and stressed for few days after 11-10-2019,fire brigade declared my house not fit for living in,so i was first put 4 days in a hotel,then up till 21th december in a house from the community,i thought the insurance would cover the hotel costs==nope..had to pay out of my own pocket,the temporarary lodging from the community costed me rent as well...my kitchen is repaired but not completely,no door,no window,i must hop through my living room window to go to my garden,
garage,or go completely around via the front door..not too much of trouble though...i manage,they did the kitchen cupboards,water supply,my heating system works,so...i can manage,my living room walls suffered smoke damage,so i will have to paint them==lots of work..No idea when they will fix the kitchen door+window...anyway...I'm alive and kicking and looking into the future in an optimistic way...thanks for explaining on the subject destiny pre written...

Is it entirely possible that the psychic you see is somehow energetically manipulating you?

I don't know if you believe this, but those of us who have some level of awareness of the energetic currents that flow through this reality, so-to-say, have the ability to mentally manipulate it. I'm okay with people not believing that, that's perfectly fine, and possibly even healthier, but please be aware that it's slightly possible that the psychic you are seeing is shifting these energetic currents in order to gain some sort of control over your life. I have had this done to me and (in retaliation, when I was much younger) I did it to other people.

My take on fate is that it's both pre-written and also not pre-written. The idea is to think beyond the Self that you perceive in this world and into the Selves that you are in other worlds.

Neat post.

I am glad you are ok and looking optimistic. As long as you are in that state, it’ll be ok 🤗

I was just thinking about that for the last couple weeks. I had very very mixed feelings about her all together.

I record what she says every time I see her. I listened through last recordings for the last couple years.

Somehow when I see her, most of the times I feel like: omg, she is giving me so much information. The bottom line is, most of that information is not much useful. That is probably that mental manipulation that you are talking about.

I kept thinking why isn’t it useful?
Because most of what she tells me is not the key events, people, places etc....it’s mostly background stuff, some of the times not even much relevant to me. Like who does and says what and goes somewhere and stuff...

But the very key things, most important dates or characteristics are not given, or she omits them. (I have to be honest with myself first of all: it is more profitable for her, when my life is not going so well, but not too bad, so I can still afford to see her).

For example: she told me I was gonna go to my home country 2 years ago. Yes, I was thinking about it, but wasn’t sure if it was a good idea. She just said: you are going, I don’t see nothing bad. Well, that trip was the HUGE MISTAKE, and I am still reaping the results from it to this day.

Another example: she said a blonde woman will come from a different state to be my roommate. She said, the blonde was ok, a neutral, but don’t take the dark one- she has something against you. Turned out the blond was not good as well, she was a friend of that dark one and they both hated me/jealous of me. She was doing all kind of passive aggressive shit, while living at my house. She did a lot of damage in the 3 weeks of staying with me. I had to put her out a week earlier because I couldn’t bear it anymore.

So why that lady didn’t see it? Or did she see it but for various reasons didn’t mention to me and actually told me the opposite?

In fact when I saw her the last time, the blond was still at my house. And the lady kept saying: there is darkness in your house but not from your roommate, it’s from before (I felt something fake in that, as if she knew it wasn’t true, but tried to convince me that it was). She was 100% wrong, it was absolutely from new roommate, once I put her out, it’s like the air became cleaner.

Anyways, I agree with you, it is pre-written and it’s not. There are constants and variables like in math lol

Also I deleted all contacts from that psychic, I am not planning to see her anymore.

In my opinion you shouldn't believe in pre-written destiny or psychics.

It's true that there are major events in our life time that we cannot change , but many of the big events are usually caused by human activities.

Do you feel that her words are influencing your life?

InSearchOfPeople~ I read this topic & while my thoughts are late, I hope you don't mind them. I saw a psychic, when I was a very young 20 year old. This particular lady, told me thing's as well. What I can take from her reading was this. Thing's can happen. When someone else "plants a seed" in our minds, we tend to "fester" about it. Now, that can be on a conscious level or unconscious level. None the less, sometimes we "manifest" thing's that we are told. What I was told, by this particular lady within my reading was something that scared the daylights out of me. For many year's, no matter how hard I tried, I could NOT shake the thought from my mind. Yet, how many year's did I "fester" about it...way too many. I was terrified most day's of her prediction coming to light. I'm grateful, truly, that she was incorrect. I will say, however, it changed the way(s) I had to "view" my paths in front of me or the direction(s) I had to make the choice(s) to take. Not always making the right or correct one's.


To me, our lives are not pre-determined. While we may not always be 'in the driver's seat' with events or changes that are out of our control, we do have control over what choices/decisions/paths we take or choose. I think that everyone's given that "sense" or gut feeling(s) of what's right/wrong or good/bad. We all have the common sense to choose our own path's or destinations. I will say this much. I do believe, there's some really good psychic's out within this world. People that are truly gifted & have the sight to see further into our world(s) than what we can predict. That being said, we still have to walk the path(s) we choose. No one can "force" our choices. Yes, they can "plant the seed," but ultimately it's our decision(s) to "allow" that seed to grow or manifest itself into what was predicted at the time(s) it was.


I think you can rewrite your own script, take your life in the direction(s) you want it to go & be the one 'in control' the majority of the time(s). Yes, life does have it's own "paths" for us, but again, we are the one's that need to decide, in which direction(s) we want to go with it. This is just my own personal perspective about your posting.