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Old 08-10-11, 05:46 PM   #1
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well this girl i met a few weeks ago me and her hit it off and got on really well anyway we have met up and she didn't wanna be with me yet but was gonna tell her mum we was together anyway. yesterday she said "she loves me and another guy" but today she turned around and said "that guy is a girl" so that didn't bother me to much anyway

1.i asked her about a guy on facebook she said oh i knew him for years but clearly after using a fake account she has knew her for a week. and she slipped up today

2.she told me she loved me and always wants me in her life "on the fake account i asked her if she loved any guys" and she said "no there is no one i love"

3. she told me some singer off the tele used to be her mate and he said he would take her with him. my ex come up with this same lie 6 years ago

truth be told this girl has hurt me and i think she is a compluslive lier i have known her less than a month and i can pick these lies out like candy in a chocolate store

could someone offer me some advice please ?
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Old 08-10-11, 06:04 PM   #2
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You know, when I read your post, I truly feel for you.

You know, it seems to me, she has no clue, as to what she really wants. You also mentioned, you're picking up her lies, in a very short amount of time. Maybe she has some kind of issues with relationships or just being honest and upfront with people? It's just my opinion.

My daughter dated a guy similar to her. He was actually dating other females and lieing to her. She caught him, MORE than on once! She also found out, his x was pregnat, again, with another child! I told her that she needs to confront him, in a calm manor and just tell him the gig is up! She did! She moved forward from it and, in time, will find somebody that she truly desirves! Just like you will! You will find somebody that apreciates everything you do for them, without any lies. Just remember, you DO desirve a kind, loving, and honest person!
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Old 08-10-11, 06:41 PM   #3
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thank you aries "hugs" im glad theres genuine people in the world

yea maybe she tells me im her best friend and doesent wanna date me but the other day all up for dating i think her mind is mixed up but i love her but i want my heart to break free due to me knowing how this will end

wow ur daughter deserves better than him, i hope so u are so kind thank you so much :)
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