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Old 06-23-13, 09:22 AM   #1
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Not sure what i am, but i know there is depression. Seems it appeared or i noticed it when my ex cheated and left me for this girl. after that i started internalizing everything and blaming myself for his cheating i told myself and still tell myself "u can't do anything right and no one wants u" i told myself all of this because of 1 person who cheated when i know i didn't cause that as people can cheat for no good reason but it still made me feel inadequate. i'm antisocial at work, never really happy, i take things personal all the time, i get angry easily, seems only bad things happen to me. When i'm happy it doesn't last long. I have another post on here where i took interest in a guy who obviously didn't care about me as he got drunk on a date we went on and urinated on my carpet in the middle of the night and now he won't answer my texts he ignores me..but i take this personal and tell myself he doesn't want u because you aren't good enough. And again clearly i should not want this type of man. I don't know whats wrong with me. I don't have many friends and i stay at home mostly. Any advice?
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Old 06-23-13, 09:37 AM   #2
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Hey sweetie,

I think EXACTLY the same as you. Having been cheated on in every relationship i've entered, I just gave up on it now. I know I'll never truly be happy or settle down with anyone, but i've came to terms with it kinda. It's lonely I know, but I have no other option.

I rarely leave the house too, nor do I have many friends. In fact, sometimes I think it's better that way because then no one (except yourself) can hurt you. I know sometimes it gets awfully lonely, but I don't have much in this life to be honest.

And you are good enough sweetie, you'll find someone one day who loves you for who you are. Me on the other hand, I'm screwed, but I know and understand it was all my own doing. It just takes time hunny.

All the best,

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Old 06-23-13, 09:48 AM   #3
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Hey sweetie,

I think EXACTLY the same as you. Having been cheated on in every relationship i've entered, I just gave up on it now. I know I'll never truly be happy or settle down with anyone, but i've came to terms with it kinda. It's lonely I know, but I have no other option.

I rarely leave the house too, nor do I have many friends. In fact, sometimes I think it's better that way because then no one (except yourself) can hurt you. I know sometimes it gets awfully lonely, but I don't have much in this life to be honest.

And you are good enough sweetie, you'll find someone one day who loves you for who you are. Me on the other hand, I'm screwed, but I know and understand it was all my own doing. It just takes time hunny.

All the best,

Mitch.

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Thanks, sometimes i just wanna give up. I'm 34 and everyone says give it time and you're young but when everyone who enters your life that u take interest to is wrong is an awful feeling to me.
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Old 06-23-13, 09:54 AM   #4
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I just wanna give up too hunny. But I know I can't, even though I really want to. And neither can you. 34's no age! Your still a pup ='). I'm 22, which makes me even younger than a pup... whatever that is =S.

Anyway, you really can't give up sweet, you gotta keep plugging away at it. You won't find Mr. Right just by looking, he'll find you, totally by accident. But WHEN you do find him, never let him go, ever =').

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