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Old 10-01-09, 07:14 AM   #1
 
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I'm sick of my social anxiety prob... I hate myself to max.... I don't know why but I can't talk properly...

It's extra stressful when I'm with my bf, when he introduces me to his friends and colleges...or when he takes me to a party. No matter how hard I try I just can't talk to people and sometimes I talk weird and people just look at me weird. I feel so upset coz I feel that I ashamed my bf......

I wish I am better... I wish I can talk and social... I wish I can make bf proud... he always tell me it's ok that I am anxious... but i think it's not ok at all...

I just want to be able to talk, to make friends...to social... why? why after so many years, so many painful experience, and so many effort, I still can't social =(
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talk about what you love, and when introduced talk right away and pic the topic of your choice and steer the conversation, don't give them a chance to lead, talk about things you are good at and know about and if it goes way wrong, then politely make a excuses to leave.

i worked in sales and am shy but it was my job to talk to people and this is how i did it and was trained to do it, goodluck
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