Originally Posted by Delta40
i'm sorry. I guess my post is implying that those feelings are a choice. That isn't how I meant it to sound and I should have put more thought into it before just putting it out there. I guess what I'm trying to put across is balance. I get the impression sometimes that we allow our sexual behaviour to manifest - even though it is often due to experiences and do nothing about it because society has a broad tolerance of how we can feel or operate in this area under the auspice of 'healthy'.
This is not the case of how society would have us operate anywhere else and I think that is a discrepancy. Literature and media promotes it as a norm even.
I am making an observation and I wasn't judging others.
Oooo I didn't understand your post but I was never offended either. Just hungry :-D! I agree! Society has made sex into this thing that people have to do, it's all about when you lose your virginity, all about how much sex you have, or don't have and with who, etc. and just I can't word it as good as you worded it but I understand what you're saying now and I certainly agree with you! :-)