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Old 09-04-12, 05:25 PM   #1
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Why are people so mean to me? Why are they so cruel? Why are they so miserable? Why don't people want me to be happy? Everything I consider doing is off limits. Not working is off limits because that's not fair to them because they're all miserable working people. So they tear me down and call me lazy vermin to make me compelled to work. Or if I say I'm a stripper no that's too cool that's too up there that's too happy. Oh oh happy person, gotta put a stop to that.

I'm in pain. I'm weak and powerless. I give up trying to be happy at least for now. Happiness is a moving mirage. Then again joy is resistance. So it's another dilemma.
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Old 09-04-12, 05:28 PM   #2
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People don't want you to be happy, so I will be happy. The joy of resistance. Joy IS resistance. What's the purpose of life if not to enjoy it, if not to be happy?
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Old 09-04-12, 05:41 PM   #3
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Honestly, some people feel happiness can be a limited resource. They treat it like money, there's only so much to go around. Just like money though, that idea is just a human construct. It's not actually true.

It's really sad to see people bringing others down. I feel really sorry for the people who view life that way. It must mean they have lives they don't like at all. Some people just think you're stealing your happiness.

I live in a system where love and happiness are infinite resources (by human standards). It can be achieved but we just need to act morally to make sure we generally live good lives. I live in a system where there is no need to resist. That energy is instead applied to making the system stronger and spreading the goodness.

The real world (corporate world) has felt extremely soulless for me and I don't enjoy it in the slightest. I like the system and I'm in and I'm happy to see if blossom wonderful fruits too.

Just my thoughts.
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Old 09-04-12, 10:07 PM   #4
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Thank you my friend

Yes I have made peace with my enemies, the bullies, the people in this world who aren't happy and want to steal my happiness, the people eaters, the domination types. I'm in the world but not of it. I don't know what system you're in but it sounds like a paradise, like I wonder where you are

That sounds so wonderful. I have a live and let live attitude now and I stay away from negative people. I just surround myself with friends and family
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If people cannot find happiness or atleast some contentment with themselves, how could they expect that from you.
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What do you mean by that?
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What's the purpose of life if not to enjoy it, if not to be happy?
Amen sister!

The only question I have to ask myself is "Is this really making me happy?" If the answer is yes, then anyone who disagrees either is told to get lost or, where possible, isn't told anything at all. My advice is do not live your life to make other people happy (except in the cases where making others happy is happiness for you - such as loved ones, family, children, etc.).

Anyway, if they don't want you to be happy then they probably don't care about you. Why listen to people who don't even care about you? Forget 'em.
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Thank you for this. This is so true. Growing up I was guilt-tripped into thinking that if I did what made me happy I was being selfish. In school a professor used to yell at us and say that we're morally obligated to give back. That sounds like self-sacrifice which is pure evil. Also you shouldn't give back unless you're totally sure of yourself. Yes I would be getting paid for it but I would feel like an emotional prostitute.

I still have this urge to take in a couple of neurotics as a pet project. I think I'm very smart and could help many people. But that's just an ego trip so unfortunately I learn to realize the futility of this endeavor. They would just take advantage of me because they're not whole. So I can just help people here and then that's fine.
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I am constantly abused by my boyfriend. I should have aborted my child, but I was stupid enough to trust and listen to my psycho boyfriend so now I am stuck in this relationship with this asshole. All he ever does is call me stupid, dumb, a liability, fucking idiot, donkey, useless etc etc I pay all the bills in this house, I wash clothes, I buy all the clothes and all the food. This ass just uses up all my money and abuse me, he beats me up and cut off all my hair.
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