Originally Posted by Crystaltears
that's got to be the hardest thing.
I use to think my family was the most important thing now I just want to get the hell away from them.
IT's almost as if I don't shutup and bow to his fakeass i'm some horrible person who can't do anything right
Yes, it is very hard when they don't believe you. It's like betrayal. I know what this is like. When it comes to the subject of abuse, families react in ways that you cannot predict.
There might not be any totally satisfactory solution. So, instead, you have to find some other path. Denying the abuse might be acceptable for them, but it is not helpful to deny it when you are the survivor. That has been the first step for me - the truth.
You're not a horrible person. If some fool doesn't have the heart or the bravery or the care to believe you, and he wants you to shutup, then he is helping to deny and hide abuse, like many people in this world.