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Old 02-19-12, 09:39 PM   #1
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i was popular with ladies

then i got this guy jealous and he went crazy

he sabtoiged every gril i talked to for 2 years til i caught him at last

but something went wrong

my rep never returned

now thigs are the opposite

i act like a palyer

nothing

i act all sweet and innocent

nothing

ive done all i can to restore my rpe with ladies

now i have no hope of finding love


i refuse to have my heart broken again

im done looking for love for ever

now all i want is revenge o n that son of a bitch


how do i do it

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Old 02-21-12, 09:54 PM   #2
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how do i take my revenge
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Old 02-21-12, 10:15 PM   #3
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98rodrom - I'm a female, so I can only give you my opinion on this. First of all, what this person did to you was wrong; no question about it. Seeking revenge to me, my opinion again only, usally 'backfires' on ourselves. Now while I understand that your reputation be 'tarnished' there's always positive/good ways to 'bounce back' from it all. Don't seek revenge, life is too short to be 'consumed' with it and to me, things all have a way(s) of working themselves out. Believe me, I DO and can relate to how you're feeling. I've been there and with some people, still am. What keeps me going, in a more positive matter/attitude, is that things always work out, when we least expect things to. I hope you don't mind sharing this with you. I have a neighbor that all I wanted is revenge on (long story). When it first started, that was all I was consumed with; daily. To be quiet honest, it was hurting me and my health, more than it was ever 'hurting' her. Then I inadvertently said something to somebody else, thinking they were no longer friends. It all starting coming down on me. She tried to have my dogs removed by the cops and lie to (my x now) husband saying that she had nothing to do with it. HE even acknowledge she did. So, long story short, I quit 'driving' for revenge on her. I left things to have 'fate' or whatever you want to refer to it. As time has moved on and my 'revenge' streak isn't even a thought any more, I've noticed some things have (sadly-honestly) have started to happen to her.

To me, it all works out in the end. Don't waste your time 'seeking' it. It waste too much energy on things or people that aren't truly worth our own efforts. Concentrate on making yourself the best you can be. People will see that part about you and some, not all, will seem to ignore the past. In the end, either way, you're still further ahead, by moving forward from it all. I know it's not easy! I was overwhelmed with revenge on this person, for years! All it did, every time I saw this person, was make me more and more upset. It was affecting my health and to me, nobody is worth that much effort in my life. It takes more out of us to seek it and in the end, we seem to suffer more than they do. Let it go and be a better person than they are. It's just my thoughts and how I feel.
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Old 02-22-12, 03:41 AM   #4
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but im STILL single because of this BUFFOON
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Old 02-23-12, 06:26 PM   #5
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running out of girls quick
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Old 02-24-12, 09:06 AM   #6
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fine i guess ill be single forever
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Old 02-26-12, 07:11 PM   #7
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Haha relax dude.
Can you explain why you fail with ladies now but didn't do it before? What is different?

What about revenge I tried getting revenge before(long story) and it just made me feel good for 60 seconds but then I got bunch of problems and regretted doing it. Besides it takes a lot of energy to execute perfect revenge.
Simply not worth it.
Just get away from that BUFFON and don't let him fuck you up anymore. Remove him from your life.
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Old 02-26-12, 10:52 PM   #8
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nothing I do is diffrent ive been using the smae stratagies for years

they worked like a charm

then i got into this feud with this asshole who was jealous

now they dont work

mr nice guy act?

nope!

act like a player?

nope!


ive accepted that ill never find love so unless you can figure this out i only got 2 options

revenge or suicide
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Old 02-27-12, 04:38 AM   #9
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Can you tell me why they don't work?
Try to make them work I guess lol.
It's not like this guy put a curse on you.
And besides you are 13 years old. Way too young to even think of such things.
Later on you will laugh at things you say now.
Just keep trying to regain your lady skills.
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Old 02-27-12, 05:17 PM   #10
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when did i say i was 13? i am 22
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