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Old 12-29-12, 11:07 AM   #11
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You need to tell someone and get all of this out to help you deal with this Alice. You shouldn't have to feel like this.
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Old 12-29-12, 01:13 PM   #12
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Hey Alice,

That really upset me- I couldn't even read all of your first post.

I had a really abusive father too. And it's a huge thing. Really big.

I know this sounds kinda dumb: but don't forget how wrong it was. You deserve to be treated with respect, love and gentleness. I think it's easy to forget that.

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Old 12-29-12, 02:10 PM   #13
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this tore my heart to shreds because i know that i can't get rid of your pain and i want to so badly. your father was a very bad man. he will get what he deserves in the end i am sure. you should talk to a therapist about this sweetie! i think that would help a lot! i love you to pieces chickadee!!
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Andrew and too much pain - Thank you guys. It means so much. I hope I didn't upset either of you. Hugs and kisses <3
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right back at you chickadee
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I don't see how anyone could be so terrible. My father was the same way before my little sister was born, we just never bring it up. You would probably benefit a lot from telling this to a therapist. Please do, you deserve to feel better
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Old 01-11-13, 05:42 PM   #17
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Sweetheart I am happy you let it out. this is a HUGE STEP, a HUGE STEP do you hear me?

I know abuse. (I was told I am a slat, I was told I am as bad as a person can be, I was told I am unworthy of having a family or unable to have friends. I had everyone in my family being beaten up very badly, but me less. But got all the blame instead. and so much more abuse. )

You now know why you want to hurt yourself. you now know honey.

You are strong for fighting this. You are very strong. we will get over this. we only need to want to save ourselves. we only need to keep moving. there is therapy available. we will do this. You will one day, not far from today, be cured. and believe again you are worthy of being happy, of having a genuingly loving man and family that you will create and that will not abuse you like your parents family have done. Your man will not abuse you at all.

Your dad is sick.
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You will one day, not far from today, be cured. and believe again you are worthy of being happy, of having a genuingly loving man and family that you will create and that will not abuse you like your parents family have done. Your man will not abuse you at all.
Let me rephrase it to phrase it like I really mean it. You will one day not far from now believe again that you are worthy of being happy, of having a genuine loving man and family that you will create.

And let me add, that you will make it if you want to save your self.
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It's horrible to know that anyone would hurt such a sweet person. I like what Christine said, because you are worthy of being happy and having a loving person in your life, and I'm sure you'll be able to see that soon
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