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Old 03-14-10, 09:45 AM   #21
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My God.... in my opinion, that is the worst abuse a person can endure;the emotional contradiction.

is a sick mind game.. one times he is in a rage,then he sits down and explaining why not do it again and give ice for the pain he has inflicted.. **sighs*** .... I know a thing or two about contradicting feelings, and displaced guilt.. and i feel is worst than any torture one can endure..

i`m just very glad that u have somehow been able to raise above this situation and u are trying to move forward with ur father as a part of your adult life. i honestly admire you. im not very forgiving.. my heart wasn't able to endure the pain..

thank god you turned out a sweet heart from all those bad experiences, that only shows how strong of a person u truly are.

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Thanks strawberry, Your the best. (((((((((((strawberry)))))))))))))
It's probably the reason why I don't want to have kids though. I'd be afraid of fucking up their lives. I'm one of those double standard people. What's okay for others is not okay for me. I deserved to have the shit kicked out of me but if I ever hear of a parent doing that I think they should go to jail. Weird huh?
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I am so sorry that happened to you. What an awful time you must have had.
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I am so sorry that happened to you. What an awful time you must have had.
That's the thing. For me it wasn't awful at all. Weird I know but I knew that he loved me. Maybe it did screw me up. I don't know. I feel like I'm a better person for it though. Like I can handle any pain. I don't know. I'm still kinda confused. It's definitely NOT something I would want to confront him with though.
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How is he with you now? Does he ever mention what he did?
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How is he with you now? Does he ever mention what he did?
Oh God Of coarse we don't talk about it. Now we have a great relationship. We talk to each other on the phone all the time and I see him at least once a week. He's always been there for me. It's just confusing for me. I still feel like I deserve for someone to just beat the shit out of me. I've even tried goading people into it. Also when I hear of a kid really acting out I think "why doesn't the parents just knock some sense into them?". I don't even know if that right.
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I have had a few smack off parents when a kid but nothing like that. I think sometimes a child does deserve a smack but there is a limit. So, you get on OK now then. He may feel incredibly guilty and would like to mention but dare not.
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