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Old 03-26-17, 08:32 AM   #1
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Hi... i don't know if this is abuse but

Ever since I was born I was loved by my mother but once I hit age 14 my family began to act different.
My three sisters would constantly pick on me because I was different. my mom would do nothing about it after my dad diedů
I have a lot of online friends on virtual sites but I barely have IRL cause they're absent i just have one friend who I look up to.

I'm 19 years old i'm trying to get a job and move out but my mother isn't allowing me out of the house cause my sisters and her lied to the police and now i'm not allowed to leave without a parent or guardian.

My sisters would constantly pick on me and call me names but when I do it back I get yelled at not only that but they take baths and showers way more than me and most of the time I stink!


I'm never bullied others pay no mind to me i'm too shy and scared to make friends.

My mom never lets them hit me but she does sometimes as they push me we fight nearly all the time

One of my sisters are 15 years old my mom and my other sisters left me home with her and let her put me in an adult sized diaper not only that but I had to clean her room do the dishes and clean the house and let her put me to sleep

While they liked pink I liked blue sometimes I would have blue in my bedroom and would get made fun of cause i'm a girl and my mom does nothing about it

sometimes i do live a good and normal life if only they weren't in my way

one time i managed to finally do well and school and my sisters didn't like this they called my school and told them that I was very sick and couldn't make it for a week

I was so pissed off I had missed an important day

I never got to do the things I wanted cause my mother never did love me nor did my sisters

I would have so much work erased off my computer if I went to use the bathroom

I've tried countless times to get help from others but it just won't help...

I even gotten chased with a belt by my uncle who never visits

Speaking of never visiting if my family would have company or guests my mom would angrily lock me in my room and force me to stay in there until they left

my family waited until i graduated then locked me back in the house so that i wouldn't run to the cops or help

during times of being locked in my room, I'd have to sneak a candy-bar inside.

Sometimes when i would try to sleep my sisters would shout mean things about me as i try to fall asleep

I cry and cry everyday about this cause they're going to be following me around life i have nowhere to run my mother forbids me from seeing my friend

it's so bad that I just want at least a hug.

My friend would sometimes visit me sometimes when my family were out they would even take me out with them

One time I got sprayed by a skunk i had to make my own meals and drinks and do everything for myself cause my siblings and mother refused to be around me.

it's much more to come but i'll leave it at this since it's too much to say
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Old 03-26-17, 02:06 PM   #2
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Well what a mess you are in, this is barely to understand, I would classify this a abuse. I do not know your. Country of residence, but I clearly sense some sort of mental abuse. Do you have local authorities you can report to? Hey, I give you a hug, although it is only a virtual one, but, hey, the thought counts ...
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Hope tis will cheer you up a bit.
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Old 03-26-17, 04:59 PM   #4
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Wow, sorry about what you're going through. I'd say the best thing to would be to get picked up by your friend and tell (him/her) everything that has been happening. After you tell (him/her), ask if you can use their phone to contact someone that could help. Or ask someone else but by what you said, it sounds like you only really have your friend. Look around online for people to contact that could help you be free (Not sure what kind of person exactly to look for, sorry :(. I've never been abused like this but I do kind of hate my mom). The life you're living is just unfair, you deserve to be free.
Well, I hope this helped. Goodluck!
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Old 03-27-17, 06:08 PM   #5
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not only that but I had a huge fight with my older sister when we were alone i was watching my favorite show while she came in and turned away from it

I was having a bad day so i lashed out at her and i beat her really really badly

Needless to say my mother locked me in a dark bathroom filled with her mother's porcelain dolls stsring at me as I sat there in there alone and cold as hell i was forced to look them into the eyes and out of the corner of my eyes i could see them moving.

I'm also lucky that she loves me sometimes and i'm allowed to use my electronics
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