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Old 12-06-06, 04:20 PM   #21
 
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whats the point i know i love my son but he can do so much better then me i seen my foster mum today and she said we need to talk in other words she needs to shout at me and say how ungratfull i am how i am not like her daughters and how i spoil everything there really isent any point ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck it
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Old 12-06-06, 04:26 PM   #22
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he can do so much better then me i seen my foster mum today and she said we need to talk in other words she needs to shout at me and say how ungratfull i am how i am not like her daughters and how i spoil everything
Your son can never do better than you, you're a loving mom and nobody can ever replace that, your love can't be replaced. That's what he needs, that's all he needs. This shouting at you and blaming and whatever it is their doing to you has to stop. Your foster mom sounds very manipulative, angry and self-centered. I can't imagine a caring parent telling their child that they spoil everything, this is cruel. You would never do that to your son.
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Old 12-06-06, 04:30 PM   #23
 
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triggr she is right i am a nasty evil person who dosent care for anyone she is right i know she is come i had two mums up to now i am olvisly the one who is fucking up
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You're not evil and nasty, you seem very nice. I don't know what you're like in your "real" life, but I find it hard to believe that you are sweet and caring here, and that you love your son, clearly, but then at the same time your evil and nasty, I don't think so. You've got to stop blaming yourself. Your real mom and your foster mom have to take some responsibility. It's hard when your a foster child, I've known a few, they always feel abandoned and that there is something inherently wrong with them, but that's not true. Everybody makes mistakes and maybe their parents weren't good parents. You've got to forgive yourself.
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i cant i just wont to go maybe this time fingers crossed it will work
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what will work, don't do anything desperate like that. okay, just stay and talk for a bit.
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I think your foster mom really shook you up today, don't let her get to you.
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i agree with that tiggrr i was adopted as a baby for reasons that my gran and grandad didnt approve of my father but im just glad to be here
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you's dont need a friend like me
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you's dont need a friend like me
That's the depression speaking to you...and i know it's hard to not believe it...but it's just a conniving little monster that's making you hurt and be in pain...
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