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Old 03-20-08, 12:54 AM   #1
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im 22 i live with my parents... i have a nihilist outlook on life i dont think there is a god and i find life pointless and full of sadness.... i barely leave the house i have no goals in life i just sit around playing videogames and lifting weights.... contemplating hanging myself... ive never had a girl no surprise there but id like to have one and i wouldnt even know where to start to turn my life around... should i just end this sh1t...???? i feel so trapped bored and dead inside i dont think i can ever function in society again... i think i could at least tolerate life if i had a girl but fu<k lifes just so fookin hard...

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Old 03-20-08, 09:59 AM   #2
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sorry u feel so bad. ...
if it's any comfort, 22 is pretty young to determine life can't get better. ..
i do think it can, i'm older & i've seen how fast things can change, so my advice is 2 hang in there, i think you will find a way thru this. ..
if you want a girlfriend, it's going to be hard unless you get out of your house, (unless you're looking for someone online). ..
why do you stay in all the time? can you bring yourself to get out into any kind of social setting? even a bookstore or coffeehouse is a good place. ..
((hugs)) & best wishes. ...
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Old 03-20-08, 04:00 PM   #3
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im 22 i live with my parents... i have a nihilist outlook on life i dont think there is a god and i find life pointless and full of sadness.... i barely leave the house i have no goals in life i just sit around playing videogames and lifting weights.... contemplating hanging myself... ive never had a girl no surprise there but id like to have one and i wouldnt even know where to start to turn my life around... should i just end this sh1t...???? i feel so trapped bored and dead inside i dont think i can ever function in society again... i think i could at least tolerate life if i had a girl but fu<k lifes just so fookin hard...

any advice
Seeking external happiness is a tricky one. It can always backfire and make you worse then before...i would know. Like Bluegirl said, go out of the house more. You got any friends? You say you don't believe in anything, what about them? Your family?

Like you, i despise society but i'm still here for my family.

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Old 03-20-08, 09:39 PM   #4
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i dont go out much cause i really have no reason to go out besides getting food, videogames, etc.......... i havent had any friends for about a year now... i used to have a group in high school then they eventually ditched me for whatever reason just getting on with their lives i guess.... i mean where can i go by myself really ??? my parents kind of accepted that im depressed so they just let me chill here and pay for everything for me cause they know ive had a sh1tty life etc..... i mean where do i even start to get a GF, place of my own, and be comfortable in life from here ???? it just seems so hard and impossible in my situation. i just wanna hang myself everyday and escape from this prison called life.. if it werent for my parents i doubt anybody would ever find my body cause they are my only contacts really...
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Old 03-20-08, 10:16 PM   #5
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My suggestion to you, would be to get involved with something, outside of your house...

Even if its a video game club (do these exist?) or , a book club, or a dance class (obviously something that is gonna interest you).. You're of age, go to a bar, you dont have to drink, just go to socialize..

You cant meet people, if you dont try.. Just dont give up hope!
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Old 03-23-08, 04:12 AM   #6
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I know how you're feeling
I feel exactly but sometimes something comes along...a reason or something that washes your sadness even for a minute.You said u play videogames.Maybe u can find that reason in them.Just think about it.About lifting weights well thats even better.There are many people out there that need your help belive it or not.I'm not a religios type guy but may i suggest talking to some preacher and even if he says those things they always say don't be discouraged...talk to him again and again and unload that heavy load that's on your soul.
Hope i've been of some help.Take care!
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Old 03-23-08, 10:43 PM   #7
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my advice would be to get a job. you're not giving yourself any chance of getting better by sitting around the house all day. get a job- try working in a restaurant. the people there are always pretty fun and their usually a close group. just be open to experiencing new things and meeting new people. I can almost guarantee you that by working and staying busy you will not be depressed. good luck, you're among friends here
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Old 03-24-08, 10:45 PM   #8
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i know what you mean, im an existentialist on good days and a nihilist by night. The only advice i can give, is to get help from a phycitrist or some medical doctor, i felt like shit and now they gave me some meds, because i had hard trouble being with people and for depression, my story is still a work in progress but now i have hope! and hope feels good =D
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i know what you mean, im an existentialist on good days and a nihilist by night. The only advice i can give, is to get help from a phycitrist or some medical doctor, i felt like shit and now they gave me some meds, because i had hard trouble being with people and for depression, my story is still a work in progress but now i have hope! and hope feels good =D
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I've had the crapest relationships ever. They dont magically fix all your internal problems, sorry dude. But your too young to contemplate suicide, want advice? Get a job! Haha im a hypocrite. But this world isnt gonna do you any favours if your just sitting around all day man, you gotta find something more productive to do with your time... trust me the longer you wait things are just gonna get worse, you got nothing to lose, so start now, change your life!
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