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Old 01-04-16, 04:58 PM   #1
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I don't know if I've posted this in the right place. I'm not even sure if this is even abuse.

An ex boyfriend made me do discusting things to him and on Skype to him I always said no but he'd use mind games to make me do it things like he loved me and would come and see me.
I'm really ashamed and embarrassed and ashamed of myself I feel vile I hate myself. I've never really spoke about this before.

I don't know what to do
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Old 01-06-16, 05:21 AM   #2
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It sounds as though you would benefit from talking through it with someone to better understand how to move on. Perhaps a helpline or would be a good place to start
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Old 01-06-16, 01:34 PM   #3
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OK thank you for replying
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I'm sorry I can't help more, I'm glad your not with the guy anymore though. I had a bad relationship previously but learned a lot from it. Sometimes going through stuff like this helps us to know what we should and shouldn't put up with in the future.

Let us know how your feeling or if you do manage to talk things through with someone.
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Old 01-18-16, 05:26 PM   #5
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Thank you.

I just feel really stupid if I said anything. I don't think anything bad happened. He just made me do what I should have done to him as his girlfriend.

Yea i have learnt a lot. I have a great boyfriend now who treats me brilliantly
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Old 01-19-16, 08:06 AM   #6
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Glad to hear it!
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