I live with my gpa. I have since August and his health has slowly gotten worse and so he has become more and more dependent on me. Well, shit hit the fan on Wednesday when he said I need to quit my job to be here all the time. He needs me to get to the bathroom, bring him food, water, clothes, etc.
I have family members willing to help, but he doesn't want them. He's old and used to me and doesn't like change. I don't blame him all that much either because the other people willing to help are, well, they can be difficult and if I was him I might not want them to help me either. They are my mom and aunt (his daughters) and I love them but I don't really respect them.
So I have spent the last days worrying about work texting my boss texting and calling anyone alive to cover my shifts. I need to tell him that he will have to get used to someone else for part of the time, I also need to be able to trust them not to be assholes to him.
If you have any ideas or have ever been in this situation let me know. I'm human and I'm tired and I need him to cut me some slack and let someone else help.