confident /arrogant it can be all mixed up coz u can be confident and arrogant at the same time. I think it could be hot when a guy is arrogant and every now and then i feel attracted to such guys - its sexy. But if he is too arrogant or stupid and arrogant at the same time and his arrogancy is too obvious then i would despise him - not want him. But i also dont like too nice guys. It seams suspicious to me and i feel like they are either too eager to please (and in the future will be different and not so nice) or they are afraid to show who they are or smth. there must be a balance.
Its like asking "What's sexier, brown hair or blonde hair?"
Women are human. We're all different. I'm sure there are some women out there who find arrogance to be a huge turn on. And there are some women who do hate arrogant men.
Amen! There isn't a quality that's universally attractive to anyone. One of my best friends finds arrogance really attractive, even though she acknowledges that it's a pretty dislikeable quality by a lot of peoples' standards.
Okay okay, there are exceptions, like with almost anything...but generally women do go for the arrogant dickweed instead of quiet strong type. Alpha male thing, like Buckethead said.
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