torn..

DearJuliet · 07-07-2010, 08:58 AM

I could practically write a novel on the situation
Basically, I'm very very lucky to have any amazing boyfriend of almost 4 months.

But a guy from my past came back into my life recently who I used to have feelings for and apparently he used to have feelings for me too.
We've been talking a lot and we've come to really trust eachother, I was up literally all night talking to him about ourselves and how we've changed in the past year.

We both regret not telling eachother that we liked eachother, we both thought the other didn't like us.

I am still in love with my boyfriend.
But I love my old friend. I don't think it is in a romantic way. I think it's just because I've come to trust him almost as much as I trust my boyfriend.

Do you think it's wrong of me to be talking to my old friend because I have a boyfriend? Even if the old friend used to really like me?

Sweetheart93 · 07-07-2010, 02:02 PM

So it sounds like you are having a dilemna about whether or not you should be talking to your old friend because you are in a relationship. I think you should talk to your old friend, and make it clear that you have no intention for you two to be in a relationship. Does he know that you have a boyfriend? Make sure he knows that you do not plan on leaving your current relationship. If you feel comfortable remaining friends with him, then I think it's okay. Make sure he doesn't flirt with you or try to get together with you. That would be a problem.