Hey guys, need some help. I recently got out of a relationship and some of the guys at work are starting to find out about it. Anyway, I'm terrified that some of them are going to ask me out. Why am I scared? I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling, I mean there's alot of nice guys at work but I just don't feel ready for a relationship right now. I need time to recover and I don't feel prepared to go out with anyone just yet and some of these guys are really, really nice. What do I say to them? How do you say no to a nice guy. I mean some of these guys I would've jumped at a chance to go out with previously, I'm just confused right now. I just feel it's hard for a guy to put himself out there and ask.
Also, I'm not use to beating the guys off. But at this place, there's a friggin line up to my work station. I'm not use to this. Usually I get ignored or passed over. How do you say no, nicely? I really need sometime alone. Since being in 2 abusive relationships, I've decided to try to take some time for myself and get some counselling or seeing a psychiatrist for help first. I haven't fully recovered from the abuse. I thought I was doing well, but now I'm thinking maybe I'm not and can use some help.
Anyway, how do I say no to some nice guys.