im too embarrassed to go anywhere else

leftalone89 · 02-16-2010, 12:23 AM

i guess i can put it up here, but im scared/embarrassed to go anywhere else bc i no the answe will be bad. there has to be something wrong.
also, i doubt itll happen since its the female issues forum, but if ur a guy, plz dont read this. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

ok so, i have my menstrole cycle as normal right. or it has been. i started it when i was 11, n it usually lasts 3-4 days. i dont get bad cramps or anything. but on the last day or two for the past few months now, i dont bleed, its like a normal last few days, but its not blood, its like a brown fluid. idk how to describe it. n i no its normal n there has to be a problem, an infection or something. n im so embarrassed about it bc im convinced it has something to do with my addiction to masterbation bc ive never used anything, never put anything inside of me, but i would do it during my period. i dont have sex, im waiting until marriage n my bf respects that. but im getting scared now n im afraid to talkto anyone about it bc one i dont have health insurance and cant go to the doctor about it, n 2 wat if there really is something wrong. but i have to do something. the past few months, ive been able to control my addiction to masterbation n i dont do it during my period, i dont use tampons, i havent used one n over a yr (i used a cheap one n it was really uncomfortable for some reason so now im scared to use another one). n idk wat to do. does anyone no wat it could be??

TakeMeAway · 02-16-2010, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by leftalone89

i guess i can put it up here, but im scared/embarrassed to go anywhere else bc i no the answe will be bad. there has to be something wrong.
also, i doubt itll happen since its the female issues forum, but if ur a guy, plz dont read this. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

ok so, i have my menstrole cycle as normal right. or it has been. i started it when i was 11, n it usually lasts 3-4 days. i dont get bad cramps or anything. but on the last day or two for the past few months now, i dont bleed, its like a normal last few days, but its not blood, its like a brown fluid. idk how to describe it. n i no its normal n there has to be a problem, an infection or something. n im so embarrassed about it bc im convinced it has something to do with my addiction to masterbation bc ive never used anything, never put anything inside of me, but i would do it during my period. i dont have sex, im waiting until marriage n my bf respects that. but im getting scared now n im afraid to talkto anyone about it bc one i dont have health insurance and cant go to the doctor about it, n 2 wat if there really is something wrong. but i have to do something. the past few months, ive been able to control my addiction to masterbation n i dont do it during my period, i dont use tampons, i havent used one n over a yr (i used a cheap one n it was really uncomfortable for some reason so now im scared to use another one). n idk wat to do. does anyone no wat it could be??

Don't worry, its normal. I get that :)

Probably just old blood, nothing serious.

leftalone89 · 02-16-2010, 11:41 AM

so thats normal?? really?? it doesnt feel normal. my period used to last 3-4 days, now its usually 2 days, n then this brown fluid.
it does make me feel a lil better that someone else has it. takes away some of my worry. ty

laneblade · 02-19-2010, 01:09 AM

Oh Yeah. It's normal. And masturbating during your period is actually a good thing because it eases menstrual cramps and it shakes stuff loose in there with your uterine contractions that could get stuck and cause pain later on. Your a very healthy young woman to practice masturbation like you do. Don't be ashamed. It will ensure that everything is in good working order for when you get married. And it strengthens the pelvic floor muscles which your future husband will greatly appreciate. If you are ever worried about stuff though you could see a doctor and put your mind at ease.

k4k08 · 02-19-2010, 02:54 AM

yeah same here I get it too and my sister and my 2 GF's its absolutely normal and like landblade said, masturbation is good for lots of things, so unless its bothering you its perfectly normal too.

leftalone89 · 02-19-2010, 09:18 AM

well thanks everyone, that did help me feel better. ive been worried about it for a while and ive too embarrassed to come here. i cant go to a dr, i dont have health insurance, job, or a car. so if i wanted to go to a dr, id have to brrow money from my mom, call cab bc the buses dont go there anymore, n my will want ti no wat its all for.
ty again.